Cyber Monday Gift from Cyber-Dating Expert
Nov 29th
The Perils of Cyber-Dating
Thank you for visiting Cyber-Dating Expert.com. If you are reading this today, you will know that Cyber Monday has come and gone.
There was an overwhelming amount of requests from readers to take advantage of the Cyber Monday special, where I was offering *Free* copies of my online dating book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online.
The Cyber Monday promotion is now over. The link has sadly retired.
However, you can still purchase a copy of The Perils of Cyber-Dating at a discount of 32% OFF on Amazon.com and be entertained and enriched.
I have also decided to extend the special promotion of 20% off IRRESISTIBLE Profiles™ through December 15th. Don’t you want an IRRESISTIBLE online dating profile?
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‘Tis the season to be in love. Over 40 million singles have visited online dating sites. I’ll help you find the one, just for you. Don’t wait until Tuesday, as the link for the free gift will sadly expire.
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There’s still time to find your dream date before the holidays. Don’t delay as this offer will not be extended.
A Night of Chocolate and Diamonds
Nov 29th
Diamond Expert Fred Cuellar at Madame Chocolat
When the invitation arrived from my favorite Chocolatier, Madame Chocolat in Beverly Hills for a night of chocolate and diamonds along with Diamond Cutters International, it was hard not to notice.
The Best of Everything played the ultimate matchmaker by bringing together the finest chocolate and a newly launched diamond collection from the world’s famous diamond expert, Fred Cuellar. Fred was on site signing copies of the 6th edition of his book, How To Buy A Diamond: Insider Secrets For Getting Your Money’s Worth, 5th Edition
Hasty Torres, the Chocolate Executive Officer at Madame Chocolat was proudly wearing a diamond necklace from the new collection. The designs are now available for sale at her Beverly Hills location. Prices range from $100 – $4,500.
The best part of the evening – 20% of the proceeds from chocolate and jewelry sales benefitted The Los Angeles Mission and Hollywood Media and Arts. Chocolate, diamonds, and giving back to charity. It’s a wonderful combination at the holidays.
Julie Spira is a writer, dating coach, and bestselling author of the online dating book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online. Visit her at CyberDatingExpert.com
Date.com on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show
Nov 28th
Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show
Listen to Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio show with Julie Spira and her featured guest, Shira Kallus, Dating Advisor to DATE.com, Matchmaker.com, and Amor.com, their newest site for Latin Dating.
Shira shared her personal story on how she met her husband online.
You’ll learn some online dating tips on how long you should wait to meet your date, relationship advice on finding your soulmate, and how to have realistic expectations while cyberdating.
We talked about cyberdating safety and more. Listen to learn more about DATE.COM, Matchmaker.com – a site truly geared towards finding serious relationships, and Amor.com
IRRESISTIBLE Profiles – Sophisticated Online Dating Profiles
Nov 27th
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“Julie’s advice has led to dozens and dozens of dates!” ~Robin, 46-year old female
“I couldn’t understand why I wasn’t attracting quality men online. Julie Spira looked at my profile and with her suggested changes, the type of guys that have reached out to me have greatly improved.”~Brady, 25-year old female
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Cyber Love Story of the Week – Gail and Daniel
Nov 27th
Cyber Love Story of the Week
Gail joined the online dating site Match.com in July of 2005. She wan’t really looking for someone and had not been cyberdating for a while. Daniel contacted Gail, and at first glance she wasn’t interested in him. When she realized that they had some mutual friends in common, including the local minister, she decided to check into it further.
When she was told that Daniel was a great guy by her Minister, she agreed to meet him for coffee. That first date lasted for hours and so she says, the rest is history. They both knew after a few months of dating that they would get married someday. Everything just clicked for the two of them.
After 9 months of dating, Gail and Daniel got engaged. Two years after they met, the were married in a small ceremony by the same Minister that gave Brad the vote of approval in the back yard of their new home. It was second marriage for both of them and they both truly believe they were lucky to find someone who shared their same values.
Congratulations to Gail and Daniel, our Cyber Love Story of the Week from your friends at CyberDatingExpert.com
Thanksgiving Advice for Singles
Nov 26th
My column today on the Huffington Post provides an exercise that both singles and couples can benefit from. Try not let the pressures of the holidays get you down. Read my article and at the end of the post, I would be grateful for any comments.
Can You Be Happy At Thanksgiving When You Are Single?
Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours.
Cyber-Dating Expert Weekly Flirt
Nov 25th
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Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show with Date.com and Matchmaker.com
Nov 25th
Join Cyber-Dating Expert Julie Spira as she welcomes Shira Kallus, Relationship Advisor to DATE.COM, Matchmaker.com, and Amor.com to Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show on Saturday, November 28, 2009.
Matchmaker.com was one of the first commercial Internet dating sites. They focus on singles looking for a serious relationship. Along with their other two sites, they host more than 10 million members worldwide and add over 100,000 new members each month.
We’ll be talking about how to find a relationship during the holidays, will provide dating advice for men and women, and will answer your questions about dating, love and romance in a Web 2.0 World. Call in at 646-929-0012 at 2pm/Eastern Time, 1pm/Central Time, 11am/Pacific Time.
Listen to Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert
7 Online Dating Tips to Get Lucky in Love for the Holidays
Nov 24th
Thanksgiving is around the corner and at this joyous time, it can also be very lonely and filled with anxiety for singles.
If you want to get lucky in love, here are my SEVEN dating tips to help you find love online in time for the holidays so you won’t be flying solo on New Year’s Eve.
1. Create an IRRESISTIBLE online dating profile.
- This includes a catchy screen name, professional photos, and an alluring essay that will pique his curiosity.
- If you are online now, change your screen name and reinvent yourself.
2. Let’s Get Organized
- Create a simple excel spreadsheet to help you sift through the possible dates to narrow down your search.
3. Don’t Wait. Initiate
- Women are told not to initiate contact with men and to let them do the pursuing. Why limit your possibilities? Come up with creative and key opening lines to initiate contact with men who will be flattered to hear from you.
4. It’s All About Color
- Sure nothing beats the little black dress. But for the holidays, spice up your look up with color. Wear red, gold, blue, or a color that will make you shine.
5. Find the Time
- Don’t spend all your time on the computer. Start filling up your calendar and transfer your online life to an offline relationship.
6. The Magic of 3
- Spend 3 hours a week minimum on your online dating site.
- Sign up for 3 online dating sites. Choose one a niche site, one larger mainstream site, and one a free online dating site.
- Write to 3 men EVERY day.
- Go on 3 dates a day. Does this sound impossible or frightening to you? Start with coffee in the morning, schedule a casual lunch during the day, and in the afternoon meet someone for coffee or drinks. You may be so pleased with your results that one of these dates could turn into a dinner date.
7. Cast a Wide Net
- Don’t toss away the date without chemistry. Consider each date as a new friend who may invite you to a holiday party. Expand your social and business network and be open to all of the possibilities.
For more personalized cyberdating tips and relationship advice, contact us for private coaching with Cyber Dating Expert Julie Spira, Let us help you create your IRRESISTIBLE online dating profile in time for the holidays or visit CyberDatingExpert.com where we provide dating advice for men and women.
Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert:Advice – How do I let her know I’m Interested?
Nov 23rd
Cyber-Dating Expert
James came to me looking for relationship advice in letting a girl he has liked for 6 months know his true feelings.
Dear Julie
Hi. I have a couple of questions.
I really really like this girl and have liked her for 6 months. I danced with her at a dance and would like to know what I can do to make this girl like me back.
I want to tell her my real feelings and I don’t know when where and how
to do it.
James
Dear James,
There is no way to force a woman to have the same feelings for you as you have for her. Asking her to dance was a good first start. Generally a woman will realize that you like her just by approaching her. Your next step would be to ask her out for a private date for a casual lunch of get together, not in a group setting. If she accepts your invitation, your relationship is going in the right direction. If she doesn’t, be happy that you have a nice friendship. Some relationships take time to build.
Our recent Cyber Love Story of the Week couple who met on Match.com is the perfect example of this. In this case, Lynn gave gave Dave the “Let’s be friends” talk as she didn’t feel anything for him romantically. He stuck in there as her friend and confidant, and over time grew to love him. They were just married about a month ago. Patience is a virtue. Let us know how your first date went with the object of your affection.
Do you have a dating question you would like answered? If so, send contact us at CyberDatingExpert.com where we provide dating advice for men and women.
