Reading Room: Why He Disappeared – Dating Advice
Aug 17th
My friend and fellow dating coach and author Evan Marc Katz has written a terrific book that I highly recommend. If you ever had a relationship that you thought was going well, and it just abruptly ended without an explanation, Why He Disappeared: The Smart, Strong Successful Woman’s Guide to Understanding Men and Keeping the Right One Hooked Forever is the book for you.
Personally, I had experienced this frustrating and hurtful feeling during my dating days. Evan’s insight from the male perspective will help you understand directly why this has happened. He’ll also provide you with some insight and no nonsense life-lessons that you can take with you as you move forward into your next relationship.
From time-to-time, I will recommend relationship authors and dating experts who I believe have the same values and perspectives as my own. I really believe in Evan’s material the way I believe in my own.
Along with his eBook and a 2-hour audio version of the same material, you’ll learn the main reasons that men don’t follow through with you. Evan’s summer promotion with selected bonuses is available only from August 17-24, 2010.
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You can try it out – with the 1-year money-back guarantee.
*Please note that Cyber-Dating Expert is an affiliate of Evan Marc Katz. This means that I will get paid a commission for products and services that you purchase on this page. I have read this book and whole-heartedly recommend it in the Cyber-Dating Expert Reading Room.
Finding Your Perfect Match
Jul 26th
After Dr. Pepper Schwartz’s appearance on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show, I just needed to share more with you. It’s with great pleasure for me to add her book, Finding Your Perfect Match
Dr. Schwartz is the Chief Relationship Expert at Perfect Match, an online dating site that she helped create the Duet Compatibility Profiles for. Her book helps readers identify the eight specific personality characteristics that they need to understand about themselves-and others. In her book, she helps singles determine who they would be compatible with based upon similar personalities. Her book includes a series of self-tests that have helped thousands of people in their search for love, gives them an intimate and honest appraisal of who they are, what they want, and ultimately, who they should be with.
Some of the lifestyle issues she focuses on includes: money, sex, children, core values, and social life. You’ll learn what your deal-breakers are and be able to determine whether someone is a potential match before getting deeply involved. If you are looking for a lasting relationship, this book may be for you.
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The Carrie Diaries
Jun 8th
I was happy to see that Candace Bushnell released a book just a month before the Sex and the City 2 film. In The Carrie Diaries
You’ll read about the about Carrie’s first glimpse in becoming a writer, see how her friendships developed, and get a glimpse about her life pre-SATC.
Although the book is targeted to young adults, fans of Sex and the City of all ages will enjoy hearing about the earlier years in the life of Carrie Bradshaw. It’s a great summer read and I’m please to add it to the Cyber-Dating Expert Reading Room.
He’s Just Not Your Type (And That’s a Good Thing)
Apr 27th
Today my friend and fellow dating and relationship author, Andrea Syrtash is celebrating. It’s the release date for her new book, He’s Just Not Your Type (and that’s a good thing): How to Find Love Where You Least Expect It
Last week, we were treated to a sneak peek of the book on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show, and it’s with great delight that I am adding this book to the Cyber-Dating Expert Reading Room as a recommended read.
Andrea’s dating and relationship advice comes from an authentic point of view. Her values are completely in line with what we talk about at Cyber-Dating Expert. She uses her own personal story of how her husband Michael, who was not her type. Now, she is happily married and discusses with great enthusiasm about the benefits of dating and mating with a man you originally thought was not your type.
Andrea calls these men the NTs. NTs come in a few flavors including:
- DNT – Departure Non-Type
- SNT – Superficial Non-Type
- CNT – Circumstantial Non-Type
She also has an appendix that includes online dating dos and don’ts.
For more information visit AndreaSyrtash.com
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Flirtexting – How to Text Your Way Into His Heart
Mar 16th
After a fun and fabulous interview with authors Debra Goldstein and Olivia Baniuszewicz on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show, I’m pleased to add their dating advice book, Flirtexting: How to Text Your Way to His Heart
Their mantra in the book is, “We date, therefore we text.” Flirtexting, according to the two, has become the new “first step” in dating.
Deb and Liv describe Flirtexting as “Any text message sent between you and a boy you would like to date or are currently dating (i.e., someone you would like to make out with or are currently making out with). These texts are normally comprised of the flirty, witty banter that you throw back and forth with each other that typically leads to a date and, if you’re lucky, then some.”
If you aren’t sure who should make the first move in the electronic generation, then this book is for you. You’ll learn about some fun and flirty ways to communicate with the opposite sex.
Some questions you’ll get answered include:
- Should a woman send a text message to a man to thank him after a date?
- What are the benefits of texting while dating?
- What are the do’s and don’ts of texting
- What is sexting and should you press the send button?
You’ll also find out which of the two authors actually was asked to the prom via text message.
It’s a fun and easy book to read and fits in nicely with our theme of dating in a Web 2.0 World.
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Cyber-Dating Expert Reading Room – Love in 90 Days
Feb 8th
Dating and Relationship expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner has just released the paperback version of her bestselling book, Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love
In this new version, she has added a chapter called, Dating Games Men Play 16 Deadly Dating Patterns You Need to Know Now. She provides instant insight into the minds of men!
Dr. Diana talks about the DUDs (Definitely Unworkable Dudes) and how to end up with a STUD (Seriously Terrific, Utterly Devoted Dude), who will help you make your wishes and dreams come true.
Chances are you will relate to some of these personality types including “the Geek”, “Peter Pan”, and the “Commitmentphobe.” She will also introduce you to some new terms such as, “Burnt Toast”, one who complains about his ex-girlfriend or ex-wife, and “Not perfect, I’ll Pass.”
Ready to hear more? Dr. Diana will be on The Today Show on Tuesday, February 9th and will be a featured guest on the Valentine’s edition of Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show scheduled for February 13, 2010 at 2pm/ET, 12 noon/CT, 11am/PT.
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Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants
Dec 30th
Here’s one for the boys. With almost half of the Cyber-Dating Expert readers being male, it was time to feature a book in the Reading Room with dating advice for men.
I’m please to introduce you to Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants: Timeless Wisdom on Being a Man
It’s a short book–more of a conversation between a young married man and his very wise grandfather. He clearly points out that every man wants to be the hero to his wife. His book will give you specific examples on how to achieve this. There is no confusing the matter. Most women want a strong man that they can look up to. Elliott points out shifts in behavior to get a more favorable response from the women in your life. Read this book and learn how to become more successful with the women in your life.
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Make Every Man Want You
Nov 18th
Last month, I had the chance to meet Marie Forleo, author of Make Every Man Want You: How to Be So Irresistible You’ll Barely Keep from Dating Yourself!
Marie will be a featured guest on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show on March 27, 2010. In anticipation of her appearance, I welcome her book to the Cyber-Dating Expert Reading Room.
Marie’s bestselling book is filled with dating advice and focuses on the importance of becoming a confident woman and in being true to yourself. With this new confidence, it will open the door to attract a quality man.
It’s an enjoyable and practical book with an amazing title.
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Men to Run From
Oct 13th
Men to Run from: So You Can Find the Right One to Run to
This book gives women the needed insight into men and their behaviors, which will hopefully lead to making better relationship choices.
Catherine Cardinal describes 20 personality types of men in her book, including The Artiste, The Wannabe, The Loose Cannon, and The C’mere, Go Away Guy. The book is filled with helpful hints to help you figure out if your man is worth keeping, and once you determine where he fits in, she provides you with terrific dating advice and things you can do should you decide to stay in your relationship.
You will find yourself laughing as you relate to your past relationships and will hopefully send you running into the arms of a compatible man.
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Act Like a Lady – Think Like a Man
Aug 25th
It’s the number one relationship book online and in the bookstores. He’s been on Oprah. He’s just been named a special correspondent on parenting and relationships for Good Morning America. It’s been out since the beginning of the year, and it just made it into the Cyber-Dating Expert Reading Room.
You may be wondering, what took it so long? When ABC announced last week that Harvey would be joining the team, I finally went out and purchased his best-selling book.
You may have already read the book. But if you have not, I recommend Steve Harvey’s book, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
It’s a simple book with a basic no brainer approach to understanding the male species. Harvey has his 90-day probationary rule and advises women not to “put out” before that time. He says you are worth the wait. He calls it the “cookie.”
The book helps women get into the mind-set of a man by listing three important facts on how a man looks at himself.
- Who he is
- What he does
- How much money he makes
Harvey also adds three things that every man needs in a relationship from a woman.
- Support
- Loyalty
- The “Cookie”
I call the “cookie” dessert. From a male’s standpoint, it’s the reward for his hard-working dollars. If a woman isn’t providing sex to her man, Harvey claims he WILL go elsewhere. It’s a simple tough-love formula and a terrific book.
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Julie Spira is the author of The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online. Visit her at CyberDatingExpert.com
