Comments on: Dating Advice – New Year’s Resolutions. Who Needs Them? http://cyberdatingexpert.com/dating-advice-new-years-resolutions-who-needs-them Online Dating Advice - Julie Spira Fri, 03 Sep 2010 06:06:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Bruce Sallanhttp://cyberdatingexpert.com/dating-advice-new-years-resolutions-who-needs-them/comment-page-1#comment-1172 Bruce Sallan Thu, 07 Jan 2010 15:44:15 +0000 http://cyberdatingexpert.com/?p=9304#comment-1172 Julie - maybe "fear" is the number one obstacle but I'd suggest "persistence" is the number one reason most people get frustrated and/or quit the online dating world. Especially women. Many women get sick of the lying, or just can't handle the crassness of many men or, like my one date I had, just can't handle the volume of winks, blinks, looks, and e-mails. She said, when we were first dating, that she got something like 1,800 in a 10-day period. At first I didn't believe her (my now wife got over 10,000 during the months she was doing online dating - and answered EVERY one - meeting 7 of them. I was the 7th). I asked this date how she happened to pick me to meet. Yes, I think I was a "catch" but among thousands why me? Her answer was sobering. She said she literally does an eine-meenie-minie-moe with the pages of e-mails, deleting whole pages arbitrarily and opening other e-mails randomly. I happened to be one of the random ones she opened. I made her laugh and she responded. So, in essence, it was lottery luck. With men, they have to deal with TONS of rejections and no answers to the TONS of e-mails them must send.Okay, I'm droning on and on. I just want to say, it can work. It worked for me and Julie knows what she's talking about so pay attention!Bruce Sallan ("A Dad's Point-of-View")P.S. you can find my "page" on Facebook if you're interested. Julie – maybe “fear” is the number one obstacle but I’d suggest “persistence” is the number one reason most people get frustrated and/or quit the online dating world. Especially women. Many women get sick of the lying, or just can’t handle the crassness of many men or, like my one date I had, just can’t handle the volume of winks, blinks, looks, and e-mails. She said, when we were first dating, that she got something like 1,800 in a 10-day period. At first I didn’t believe her (my now wife got over 10,000 during the months she was doing online dating – and answered EVERY one – meeting 7 of them. I was the 7th). I asked this date how she happened to pick me to meet. Yes, I think I was a “catch” but among thousands why me? Her answer was sobering. She said she literally does an eine-meenie-minie-moe with the pages of e-mails, deleting whole pages arbitrarily and opening other e-mails randomly. I happened to be one of the random ones she opened. I made her laugh and she responded. So, in essence, it was lottery luck.
With men, they have to deal with TONS of rejections and no answers to the TONS of e-mails them must send.

Okay, I’m droning on and on. I just want to say, it can work. It worked for me and Julie knows what she’s talking about so pay attention!

Bruce Sallan (“A Dad’s Point-of-View”)

P.S. you can find my “page” on Facebook if you’re interested.

]]> By: Erniehttp://cyberdatingexpert.com/dating-advice-new-years-resolutions-who-needs-them/comment-page-1#comment-1150 Ernie Sat, 02 Jan 2010 02:09:33 +0000 http://cyberdatingexpert.com/?p=9304#comment-1150 I really liked this piece. Bravo. I really liked this piece.
Bravo.

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