Dr. Diana Kirschner Talks to Julie Spira on the Valentine’s Edition of Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show

Listen to Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show where Dr. Diana Kirschner, author of Love in 90 Days talked about some Valentine’s dating tips as well as her expert dating advice from the new chapter in her book, Dating Games Men Play.

Dr. Diana provided suggestions for your maximizing your online dating profile, including refreshing your profile page daily and staying logged on all day.

Listen to the show where Dr. Diana listed the some of the DUD’s (Definitely Unworkable Dudes) and some of the STUD’s (Seriously, Terrific, Utterly Devoted Dudes).

Find out how you can improve your love life by listening to the Valentine’s edition of Ask the Cyber Dating Expert Radio Show.

Late Night Conversations with Allan Holender

Join Cyber-Dating Expert Julie Spira on Thursday night, December 17, 2009 as she is the featured guest on “Late Night Conversations” with author, futurist, and radio personality Allan Holender on BlogTalkRadio.

The conversation will be filled with online dating tips and relationship advice to help singles during the holidays. We’ll be featuring Julie’s bestselling online dating book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online.

Call in at 8:10pm/PST, 10:10pm/CST, 11:10pm/EST at 1-646-716-4604 or listen in on the web.

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Julie Spira to be Featured on Dr. Carole’s Couch Radio Show

Dr. Carole Lieberman, Beverly Hills Psychiatrist and host of Dr. Carole’s Couch on VoiceAmerica Talk Radio Network will feature Cyber-Dating Expert and author Julie Spira as her guest on Tuesday, December 15, 2009.

Spira will be provide dating advice for singles who want to find a a honey for the holidays and will share her expert tips to help you get a date via the net.

Spira is the author of the bestselling book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online. Her online dating tell-all memoir is a witty and realistic inside look of her romantic journey in cyberspace which spanned over 15 years. Spira is quoted world-wide as an expert in online dating and helps singles look for love on the web. Visit her at CyberDatingExpert.com

The segment, From Mistletoe to Match on Dr. Carole’s Couch will air from 1pm-2pm, PST. Call in at 866-472-5788 with your questions or listen online at VoiceAmerica.

The Zoosk Single’s Survival Guide to Holiday Dating

Zoosk, the world’s largest social dating community, just released their Single’s Survival Guide to Holiday Dating.

The FREE Guide includes tips from myself along with two other relationship experts, gift giving ideas, online dating holiday trends, and more dating tips for the holiday season.

Their study showed that the majority of singles wanted to couple-up during the holidays and were looking for a long-term relationship.

Their survey found:

• This holiday season, 63% of singles are looking for long-term true love, 33% of singles are just looking for a holiday party date and 4% feel it’s too stressful to date during the holidays.
• Surprisingly, 19% of men say they would invite a woman to their office holiday party as a first date. Only 10% of women are this daring.
• The most desired gift is a hug or a kiss.

For more information, download your free guide at http://www.zoosk.com/survivalguide.php.

Date.com on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show

Listen to Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio show with Julie Spira and her featured guest, Shira Kallus, Dating Advisor to DATE.com, Matchmaker.com, and Amor.com, their newest site for Latin Dating.

Shira shared her personal story on how she met her husband online.

You’ll learn some online dating tips on how long you should wait to meet your date, relationship advice on finding your soulmate, and how to have realistic expectations while cyberdating.

We talked about cyberdating safety and more. Listen to learn more about DATE.COM, Matchmaker.com – a site truly geared towards finding serious relationships, and Amor.com

7 Online Dating Tips to Get Lucky in Love for the Holidays

Thanksgiving is around the corner and at this joyous time, it can also be very lonely and filled with anxiety for singles.

If you want to get lucky in love, here are my SEVEN dating tips to help you find love online in time for the holidays so you won’t be flying solo on New Year’s Eve.

1. Create an IRRESISTIBLE online dating profile.

• This includes a catchy screen name, professional photos, and an alluring essay that will pique his curiosity.
• If you are online now, change your screen name and reinvent yourself.

2. Let’s Get Organized

• Create a simple excel spreadsheet to help you sift through the possible dates to narrow down your search.

3. Don’t Wait. Initiate

• Women are told not to initiate contact with men and to let them do the pursuing. Why limit your possibilities? Come up with creative and  key opening lines to initiate contact with men who will be flattered to hear from you.

4. It’s All About Color

• Sure nothing beats the little black dress.  But for the holidays, spice up your look up with color. Wear red, gold, blue, or a color that will make you shine.

5. Find the Time

• Don’t spend all your time on the computer. Start filling up your calendar and transfer your online life to an offline relationship.

6. The Magic of 3

• Spend 3 hours a week minimum on your online dating site.
• Sign up for 3 online dating sites. Choose one a niche site, one larger mainstream site, and one a free online dating site.
• Write to 3 men EVERY day.
• Go on 3 dates a day. Does this sound impossible or frightening to you? Start with coffee in the morning, schedule a casual lunch during the day, and in the afternoon meet someone for coffee or drinks. You may be so pleased with your results that one of these dates could turn into a dinner date.

7. Cast a Wide Net

• Don’t toss away the date without chemistry. Consider each date as a new friend who may invite you to a holiday party. Expand your social and business network and be open to all of the possibilities.

For more personalized cyberdating tips and relationship advice, contact us for private coaching with Cyber Dating Expert Julie Spira, Let us help you create your IRRESISTIBLE online dating profile in time for the holidays or visit CyberDatingExpert.com where we provide dating advice for men and women.

ChristianCafe.com on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show

Listen to Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show with my guest, Sam Moorcroft CEO of the online dating site ChristianCafe.com. Hear about their features along with online dating tips and relationship advice for finding love online in time for Christmas.

ChristianCafe.com has the largest database of of Christian singles online and has successfully matched thousands of couples.

Some of their features include:

• *Free* 7 day trial on their site (10 days if you post your photo)
• Post a Prayer
• Chat, Winks, Emails

We talked about 5 tips for your online dating profile to increase your chance of success.

Listen to the radio show and get ready for the holidays!

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Let Me Call You Sweetheart – Dating Advice for Sweetest Day

Saturday, October 17th is National Sweetest Day. The holiday was created over 60 years ago by a Cleveland man who wanted to show the city’s orphans and the underprivileged that they were remembered.

In modern times, Sweetest Day is a good excuse and time for singles and couples to do nice gestures for each other. Fill the day with random acts of kindness and have a reason to celebrate.

Here are some suggestions and my dating advice for exchanging simple gifts and honoring your online date on National Sweetest Day.

A Single Rose. Bring your date one single rose. It has the same impact as the full dozen.

In Home Dining. Create a date night on Saturday night where the two of you cook together at home. Set the table with candles. If you don’t have time, bring home take-out or stop by the grocery store.

Love notes. Write a love note to your significant other and leave it on their pillow in the morning.

Simple Gifts. Buy a bottle of massage oil or foot massage cream for dessert.

Candy.  It is Sweetest Day, so pick up a heart-shaped chocolate from your local chocolatier and present it to your date with a bow.

Music. Select a romantic CD of love songs to play in the background for your romantic dinner for two.

I hope you enjoy national Sweetest Day and if you get lucky in love, please do let us know!

Julie Spira is a dating coach and the author of The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online. Visit her at http://CyberDatingExpert.com

Sandra Bullock Giving Dating Tips?

 

Sandra Bullock in "All About Steve" Photo: 20th Century FOX

First, it was Brad Pitt, who told fans in the August-2009 edition of WIRED magazine to lie about their age in their online dating profiles.

Now, another Hollywood star is dishing out her dating advice. This time, it’s actress, Sandra Bullock. Bullock was quoted in a recent article on Female First as suggesting a woman secretly “stalk” the man she is interested in to learn more about him. She added that it was a good way for a woman to lure in her prey.

In Bullock’s new film, All About Steve, she plays the role of Mary Horowitz who becomes obsessed about a man after their first blind date. 

Would dating tips like these scare a good man away? 

In a recent column on Date Daily, I was asked by a gentleman how to handle a woman who turned out to be a cyber-stalker. This of course, was after the fact when the relationship ended.

Bullock’s film is scheduled to be released this Friday, September 4, 2009.

Julie Spira is the author of The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online. Visit her at CyberDatingExpert.com

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