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In this issue:

*  Sealing the Deal Book launch with over 30 bonuses

*  New Year’s Resolutions You’re Likely to Keep

*  20% off Irresistible Profiles

*  Video: Finding Love in Cyberspace

When I had the opportunity to read an advanced copy of Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor’s Guide to Lasting Love, I not only jumped at the chance, but I also formally endorsed this relationship book. I believe in Dr. Diana Kirschner’s work. As the Love Mentor, Dr. Diana gives you concrete tools to really help you find and keep the love you are looking for.

You’ll start off by signing a “Lasting Love Contract.” It’s been proven that if you actually write your desires and wishes down and read them, you’ll have a much more likely chance of having them come to fruition. Dr.Diana also instructs you to write down your fears and will help you determine if he’s really “the one.”

I encourage readers to pick up a copy of this book,  because we all know that everyone wants to love and be loved. With Dr. Diana’s help, you’ll start believing in the possibilities. Her relationship advice is spot on. Sealing the Deal is a welcome addition to the Cyber Dating Expert Reading Room. Enjoy!

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One of my favorite dating advice and lifestyle sites, Your Tango is having a challenge that you must sign up for. Their 31-Days to a Better Sex Life will feature some of the top relationship and dating advice experts in the world.

It’s an honor to be included in this list of dating experts along with John Grey from Venus and Mars fame, my friend and author Dr. Diana Kirschner, and Dr. Ava Cadell.

My article, 5 Steps to Being a Sexier New You appeared on day 3 of the 31-day challenge. So while you’re waiting for that perfect online date to appear in your Inbox, check out my article and all of the other awesome advice during the month of October and practice these simples steps. I look forward to hearing your comments and progress.

Are you single and still sleeping in your flannel pajamas while waiting for Mr. Right to sweep you off your feet? Throw away the Cinderella dreams along with your outdated nightie and get ready to learn the art of flirting before you walk out the door for the evening.

Often, when you aren’t in a relationship, you don’t dress as if your dream guy was picking you up for dinner. Let’s face it. It’s easy to get lazy and end up in a rut. You can’t remember your last kiss. You’ve gained a few pounds since your last relationship. You’ve started to wear less makeup. Your favorite dress never made it to the dry cleaner and still has a spot on the side from the night you spilled red wine on it. The last time you got waxed was when someone detailed your car a year ago.

Sound familiar? My advice is very simple. Start creating rituals at home that will prepare you to feel great about yourself. You can create a sexier new you before having a crush on that someone special. You’ll be surprised at how you’ll start attracting men. Won’t it be fun when suddenly you can pick and choose?

Here’s my step-by-step guide to get in the mood for love without even having to leave the house most of the time. Don’t worry, love will find you when the time is right.

Step 1. Toss away a few pieces of old lingerie that’s cluttering your bureau. Do this right away. It’s time to erase the memories of your past passionate affairs. Out with the old, and in with the new.

Step 2. Invest in one new piece of lingerie. Find a great sale at Victoria’s Secret or go online and select one that fits within your budget. Pick out your favorite color. Think of your new purchase as your favorite little black dress. Before you go imagining wearing it with your new dream guy someday, wear it for yourself first. For now, you’ll be wearing this to sleep at night at least once a week. You’re on your way to a sexier new you.

Step 3. Take a look at your makeup drawer. When was the last time you invested in a simple lip-gloss? Toss away the old makeup and head over to your local department store. Walk around the cosmetics department and find a comfy stool to sit on. Get ready for a free makeover. Imagine yourself going on a date night, while your makeup is being professionally applied. The date night is with your number one fan, yourself. Make sure to get a list of the colors and pick up one item. My suggestion is to replace your outdated lip-gloss with a new color for the season. There’s something very sexy about luscious lips and it’s time your lips are made for kissing.

Step 4. Back at the ranch, it’s time to set the scene in your romantic bedroom. Put away the photos of your family and friends in your bedroom. Move your computer to another room in the house. You’ll be creating a romantic atmosphere and will leave the boardroom behind. Light some candles. Put on some relaxing music, and grab some massage oil. There’s no need to purchase Kama Sutra oils if you don’t have them handy. Baby oil will work just fine. Give yourself a well-deserved foot massage and then curl up with a romance novel.

Step 5. On the following week, change the ritual slightly and if you have a bathtub in your home or apartment, take a bubble bath. Light your candles and have the music going in the background. Put on your new sexy signature piece of lingerie afterward and fall asleep in dreamland. You’ll wake up every morning and start to feel sexier just from creating these rituals.

Now, go out in public and smile at everyone you meet. It’s time to practice the art of flirting. I’ve been flirting since my first crush when I was four years old. It never goes out of style. You’ll appear happier, more confident, more approachable, and there is nothing sexier than a confident woman to attract a quality man. You’ll walk into a room and people will wonder, “Who’s that girl?”

Personally, I have practiced these steps and I know they do work. With very little investment, other than one piece of new lingerie and a lip-gloss, you will notice a shift in your attitude. I can’t tell you how many times I have felt better going to sleep just by lighting a few candles and reading an uplifting book or story, and falling asleep wearing my signature piece of lingerie. You’re now on your way to creating a sexier new you!

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Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert

Listen to Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show where Dr. Diana Kirschner, author of Love in 90 Days talked about some Valentine’s dating tips as well as her expert dating advice from the new chapter in her book, Dating Games Men Play.

Dr. Diana provided suggestions for your maximizing your online dating profile, including refreshing your profile page daily and staying logged on all day.

Listen to the show where Dr. Diana listed the some of the DUD’s (Definitely Unworkable Dudes) and some of the STUD’s (Seriously, Terrific, Utterly Devoted Dudes).

Find out how you can improve your love life by listening to the Valentine’s edition of Ask the Cyber Dating Expert Radio Show.

Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert

Join Cyber-Dating Expert Julie Spira as she welcomes Dr. Diana Kirschner on the Valentine’s edition of Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show.

Dr. Diana is the author of the bestseller, Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love. She will be talking about the new chapter in her recently released paperback version of the book, called Dating Games Men Play. You’ll hear her expert relationship advice about these dead-end dating patterns and what to do about them.  Dr. Diana has appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show, Good Morning America and will be a guest on The Today Show on February 19th with her dating advice.

The show will air on February 13, 2010. Call in at 646-929-0012 at 2pm ET, 12pm CT, 11am PT with your questions and learn more about dating, love and romance in a Web 2.0 World.

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Dating and Relationship expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner has just released the paperback version of her bestselling book, Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love.

In this new version, she has added a chapter called, Dating Games Men Play 16 Deadly Dating Patterns You Need to Know Now. She provides instant insight into the minds of men!

Dr. Diana talks about the DUDs (Definitely Unworkable Dudes) and how to end up with a  STUD (Seriously Terrific, Utterly Devoted Dude), who will help you make your wishes and dreams come true.

Chances are you will relate to some of these personality types including “the Geek”, “Peter Pan”, and the “Commitmentphobe.” She will also introduce you to some new terms such as, “Burnt Toast”, one who complains about his ex-girlfriend or ex-wife, and “Not perfect, I’ll Pass.”

Ready to hear more? Dr. Diana will be on The Today Show on Tuesday, February 9th and will be a featured guest on the Valentine’s edition of Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show scheduled for February 13, 2010 at 2pm/ET, 12 noon/CT, 11am/PT.

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Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert

It’s going to be an exciting year of guests on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show. Join me this Sunday, January 9, 2010 for the season premiere featuring Sam Yagan, CEO of the online dating site, OkCupid.com. OkCupid is a free online dating site that is very Web 2.0 friendly. The Boston Globe calls OkCupid, “The Google of Online Dating.” The Valentine’s edition will feature love expert and bestselling author, Dr. Diana Kirschner. Diana’s book, Love in 90 Days will be released in paperback on February 8, 2010. We’ll be talking about her new chapter, “Dating Games Men Play.” We’ll provide dating advice and online dating tips on Saturdays at 2pm/eastern time.

Additional guests will include:

• YourTango – Tom Miller (Tomfoolery)
• Lovetropolis.com – Michael Lombard, CEO
• True.com – Herb Vest, CEO and Founder
• David Wygant – Dating Expert
• Skout – Christian Wiklund, CEO
• Lucia – Cougar Relationship Expert
• Textflirting – Debra Goldstein and Olivia Baniuszewicz, Authors
• Make Every Man Want You – Marie Forleo, Author
• Andrea Syrtash – Dating Expert and Author
• Blackbox Republic – Sam Lawrence, CEO
• eLove.com – Paul Falzone, CEO

Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show airs on Saturdays at 2pm/Eastern Time. The call in number is 646-929-0012 or visit BlogTalkRadio to listen online.

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Dr. Diana Kirschner and Julie Spira

Listen to this week’s Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show, where my featured guest Dr. Diana Kirschner discussed her best-selling book, Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love.

Dr. Diana talked about some of the 13 deadly dating patterns from her book including The Flame Out, The Fantasy Relationship, I’ll Make You Love Me, and Not Perfect, I’ll Pass. We also discussed her Six Secrets of Rapid Online Dating Success.

Learn how to get your Internet dating profile to stand out among the large pool of online daters in this terrific show.

Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert

Join author and Cyber-Dating Expert, Julie Spira on Saturday, July 11, 2009 as she welcomes her guest, Dr. Diana Kirschner, best-selling author of Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love on “Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert” Radio Show.

Psychologist, Dr. Diana will help women answer those frustrating questions of “Why am I attracted to the wrong guys?” “Will I ever find “The One?” and give her expert opinions on how to be successful in online dating from her new book.

Dr. Diana has appeared on the Today Show as well as on Fox’s morning show with Mike and Juliet, where she recently ran the 90 Day Love Challenge. For over 25 years, Dr. Diana has helped thousands of women break deadly dating habits, meet and attract terrific men, and discover the joys of a solid, lasting loving relationship. Dr. Diana Kirschner will share her powerful strategies with listeners on “Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show.”

Call in on Saturday, July 11 at 2:00pm/ET, 11:00 am/PT at 646-929-0012 or listen in at www.blogtalkradio.com/cyberdatingexpert.

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