“Hilariously Funny! Singles of all ages need to read this book.”
~ Joan Rivers
Comedienne and Best Selling Author
They say the best things in life are worth waiting for. The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online by Julie Spira is now available in the Kindle format on Amazon.
This bestselling online dating book and tell-all memoir features Spira’s 15 year romantic journey in cyberspace. The book is a hilarious, witty, and heartfelt look into the trials and tribulations of dating in a Web 2.0 World. Learn from an Internet industry pro who had to start her life all over again.
Here’s what they are saying about The Perils of Cyber-Dating.

“Hilariously Funny! Singles of all ages need to read this book.”~ Joan Rivers
Comedienne and Best Selling Author

“It’s like Sex and The City in a Web 2.0 World.”~E. Jean Carroll
Columnist, “Ask E. Jean” Elle Magazine

“Anyone who has ever tried online dating will relate to Julie Spira’s stories and not feel alone. The Perils of Cyber-Dating gives hope to singles everywhere with an email address that they can successfully meet someone online.”~ Dr. Pat Allen
Author of the best-seller of Getting to “I Do”

“Thank goodness there are still hopeful romantics left in this world!”~ Cheryl Woodcock
Producer and Correspondent, Entertainment Tonight-The Insider

“I’ve seen too many women put in jeopardy by unscrupulous Internet dating contacts. That’s why this book is your must-have navigation guide to help you safely travel through the perilous landscape of cyber-dating. Plus, Spira’s personal stories are a hoot and a half!”~ Diane Dimond
Journalist and Author

“Online dating memberships should come with a handbook and many doses of humor. Julie Spira provides both. A wonderful companion for singles looking for love online.”~ Julie Ferman
Founder, Cupid’s Coach

“Julie Spira tells a compelling story, shares intimate moments, and transforms her experience into means of larger good.”~ Veronica De Laurentiis
Best-selling Author of Rivoglio La Mia Vita

“There are always telltale signs whether or not a man is “The One”. Read this book and learn from Julie so you won’t be caught in a “Bermuda triangle” of Internet dating.”~ Donna Sozio
Yahoo! personals dating expert and author of Never Trust a Man in Alligator Loafers

~ Dane Robert Swanson
Santa Monica Daily Press
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~ Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal
Co-Authors and Relationship Experts
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Join Cyber-Dating Expert Julie Spira on Thursday night, December 17, 2009 as she is the featured guest on “Late Night Conversations” with author, futurist, and radio personality Allan Holender on BlogTalkRadio.
The conversation will be filled with online dating tips and relationship advice to help singles during the holidays. We’ll be featuring Julie’s bestselling online dating book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online.
Call in at 8:10pm/PST, 10:10pm/CST, 11:10pm/EST at 1-646-716-4604 or listen in on the web.
Dr. Carole Lieberman, Beverly Hills Psychiatrist and host of Dr. Carole’s Couch on VoiceAmerica Talk Radio Network will feature Cyber-Dating Expert and author Julie Spira as her guest on Tuesday, December 15, 2009.
Spira will be provide dating advice for singles who want to find a a honey for the holidays and will share her expert tips to help you get a date via the net.
Spira is the author of the bestselling book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online. Her online dating tell-all memoir is a witty and realistic inside look of her romantic journey in cyberspace which spanned over 15 years. Spira is quoted world-wide as an expert in online dating and helps singles look for love on the web. Visit her at CyberDatingExpert.com
The segment, From Mistletoe to Match on Dr. Carole’s Couch will air from 1pm-2pm, PST. Call in at 866-472-5788 with your questions or listen online at VoiceAmerica.

Two failed marriages, four engagement rings and more than 250 cyber-dates . . . Julie Spira brings to us her memoirs of her 15 years of online dating and a range of those memorable moments she has experienced, some great and others not worth the effort. For this book subtitled Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online, she has chosen a handful of the dates, telling us a bit about the date and whether it was a success. From the Investment Banker and the Neurologist to the Latin Lover, we laugh, empathise and experience a variety of feelings when we see what Julie went through from being told she looked like a date’s dead wife to being proposed to with skywriting. An amazing read that acts both as a cautionary tale and a witty insight into the highs and lows of dating. (PP) Rating 9/10

by Cougared.com
Every cougar and every cub has a few good dating stories in them. If you’re looking for juicy tales from the date hunting ground, we here at Cougared.com recommend you take a look at Julie Spira’s new book, The Perils of Cyber Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online.
‘So what?’ you say, ‘another book about online dating? Big deal.’ Ah, but this isn’t just any dating book. Spira is a seasoned online dating expert and the creator of www.CyberDatingExpert.com. Ms Spira also provides her expert dating advice as the LA Dating Advice Examiner, on DateDaily, and is the host of “Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show on BlogTalkRadio. With a career like that, you’d hope she had a bit of dating experience to speak from; and she has.
The book, The Perils of Cyber Dating, lounges languidly over 15 years and tells the tales of 250 dates, each packed with hilarious insights that anyone can relate to, from the freshest frat boy cub to the most mature and sultry cougar. Needless to say, the Cougared.com team have to give this slick and sexy collection of encounters the paw print of approval. Meow!
Purchase a copy of The Perils of Cyber-Dating
Are you looking for a holiday gift or stocking stuffer this year for your single friends? Pick up a copy of the online dating book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online.
This tell-all memoir spans 15 years and is a witty and heartfelt romantic story of the quest to find love in cyberspace. The book’s message is about authenticity, never settling, and staying optimistic even during the most difficult times. Is there a happy ending? You’ll have to read the book to find out.
Here’s what they are saying about The Perils of Cyber-Dating
~ Joan Rivers
Comedienne and Best Selling Author
~E. Jean Carroll
Columnist, “Ask E. Jean” Elle Magazine
~ Dane Robert Swanson
Santa Monica Daily Press
~ Dr. Pat Allen
Author of the best-seller of Getting to “I Do”
~ Cheryl Woodcock
Producer and Correspondent, Entertainment Tonight-The Insider
~ Diane Dimond
Journalist and Author
~ Veronica De Laurentiis
Best-selling Author of Rivoglio La Mia Vita
To purchase a copy of the book or for media inquiries, visit CyberDatingExpert.com
Thank you for visiting Cyber-Dating Expert.com. If you are reading this today, you will know that Cyber Monday has come and gone.
There was an overwhelming amount of requests from readers to take advantage of the Cyber Monday special, where I was offering *Free* copies of my online dating book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online.
The Cyber Monday promotion is now over. The link has sadly retired.
However, you can still purchase a copy of The Perils of Cyber-Dating at a discount of 32% OFF on Amazon.com and be entertained and enriched.
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There’s still time to find your dream date before the holidays. Don’t delay as this offer will not be extended.
Cyber-Dating Expert Julie Spira will be a featured guest on the MatchMatrix Radio Show on Monday, November 23, 2009.
Julie will be a guest with hosts Frank Seifert and Larry Michel and will be talking about her online dating book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating. She’ll be discussing the ins, outs, ups, down, and ultimately the steps to success in finding love in an online dating site.
You’ll learn the following:
Call in at (646) 595-4511 at 9pm Eastern Time/8pm Central Time/6pm Pacific Time with your questions, or listen online at MatchMatrix on the Law of Attraction Radio Network.
Too often I hear men complaining that women won’t respond to their online dating profile or call them back. They get frustrated and take down their cyberdating profile without realizing what they have done wrong.
Here are my top 5 reasons why your email may end up in the trash bin and ways for you to correct it.
1. No Profile Photo. It’s fine for a woman to be a bit mysterious, but women do not view your missing photo as a challenge. They will think you are hiding something or are hideous looking. Upload your photo if you want to increase your response rate.
2. Suggesting a Late Night Date. I know of a gentleman who left a voicemail for a woman he had written to three weeks earlier. The message said that he’d be in her neighborhood “tonight” and would like to meet at “9:00 pm.” Regardless of what he was doing earlier in the evening, she pushed delete and conveniently lost his number. If you are interested in meeting someone, a first date shouldn’t start at 9:00pm. A woman will likely surmise that someone else was for dinner, and she would be dessert. Suggest a mutually convenient time or she will assume you are her booty call.
3. Repeat Offender. You found the perfect profile among the millions of single women online. You write to her. She doesn’t respond within 24 hours. You write again the next day and ask her why she didn’t write back. Patience is a virtue and the best things in life are worth waiting for. Some singles are just busy with work or other activities and don’t log on daily. A woman will consider you needy and put you on the bottom of her list. If you really think she is worth pursuing, wait a week or two and write again.
4. You Wrote a Novel. Statistically, shorter profiles get read more often. If you compile a lengthy tale of your entire life story and your dream date, it’s a turn-off to most women. Novels are made for publishing houses. A profile should be a snapshot to pique her curiosity.
5. The Ex-Factor. If you graduate to a phone call from someone you met online, don’t ask questions about her previous relationships or complain about your difficult divorce. Keep your first conversation light and get a date on the calendar.
For more information on how to create an IRRESISTIBLE online dating profile, contact us at CyberDatingExpert.com
Julie Spira is a dating coach and the author of the online dating book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online. Visit her at CyberDatingExpert.com
Watch THAT Morning Show on E!, where I was a featured guest talking about online dating.
I joined co-host Karla Cavalli and provided some dating advice from my online dating book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online.
Enjoy the segment where you will learn how to spot the red flags in an online dating profile and hear some of my dating tips for successful cyberdating.