Dating Without Drama on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show
August 28, 2010
Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert
If it’s time to leave the drama behind, you’ll want to listen to our radio show featuring Paige Parker and Dating Without Drama. Learn how to move your relationship status from single and skeptical to confident and committed.
Find out about more about Facebook Without Drama including should you friend your new beau on Facebook and the dos and don’ts of text messaging your date.
You’ll hear about the red flags and deal breakers for online daters and Paige will share her personal story on how she became a very happily married woman by changing her personal strategies.
Listen to hear dating advice from myself as well as Paige on this special edition of Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show.
Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show with Paige Parker
August 25, 2010
Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert
Join Cyber Dating Expert Julie Spira at a very special time and date on Friday, August 27, 2010 at 3pm with Paige Parker, author of Dating Without Drama on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show.
You’ll hear Paige’s dating advice on how a woman can successfully attract a man, leave the drama behind, and become more confident while looking for love online.
You won’t want to miss this end of summer special program.
Call in at 646-929-0012 at 2pm/ET, 12noon/CT, 11am/PT to learn more about dating, love and romance in a Web 2.0 World.
Live on Broadway: Promises, Promises
August 7, 2010
I just returned from a 48-hour whirlwind trip to New York. No trip to New York City would be complete without a stop on Broadway. This time, I had the honor of being a guest at the revival of the musical comedy, Promises, Promises starring Kristin Chenoweth and Emmy award winner, Sean Hayes.
Back in Los Angeles, I’m still humming to the songs of “I’ll Say a Little Prayer” and “I’ll Never Fall in Love Again” sung so sweetly by Chenoweth. The show is heartwarming, especially for a Hopeful Romantic like myself. As I witnessed the emotional matters of the heart and relationship woes, I watched and wondered will the boy get the girl he has the crush on? Will the girl get over the married man she believes she is in love with? Will they ever fall in love again? If you have the chance to be in New York, I highly recommend seeing Promises, Promises. I promise, you won’t be disappointed. The performance makes you realize how important it is to open your heart to the possibilities and that a heartbreak isn’t the end of the world.
During my brief stay, coincidentally, over 2500 female bloggers were in town for Blogher 10. I stopped by Single Edition’s Bloggers in Babeland gathering and snuck in a quick trip to the Met to see the Picasso exhibtion, along with Ringo Starr’s gold drum, and Big Bamboo on the rooftop of my favorite museum.
If you can’t make it to New York, you can purchase the soundtrack of Promises, Promises
Single Edition on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show
July 31, 2010
Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert
Listen to Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show, where Sherri Langburt, founder of SingleEdition.com shared her mission of creating a lifestyle site to help singles in many areas of their lives.
Sherri, herself, is an online dating success story. After 10 years of online dating, she met her husband on JDate.
Single Edition provides dating and relationship advice from experts, along with suggestions for traveling solo, as well as health and beauty advice.
Find out Sherri’s secrets on why her online dating profile led to her marriage and hear her inspiration for singles looking for love online.
Listen to the program where you will hear more about dating, love and romance in a Web 2.0 World.
Julie Spira, Cyber-Dating Expert Sizzle Reel
July 30, 2010
Everyone at Cyber-Dating Expert Headquarters is excited today. I’m pleased to release our new media and sizzle reel. You’ll see highlights with some of my favorite and best online dating advice from my news appearances. To book an interview with Julie Spira, visit CyberDatingExpert.com/Contact
Cyber-Dating Expert Weekly Flirt
July 27, 2010
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7 First Date Mistakes You Absolutely Can’t Afford to Make
July 27, 2010
Have you ever felt like Internet dating was similar to an online auction? What happens when there’s multiple bidders for the newest fresh face? In a recent article on Match.com’s Happen Magazine, I point out seven key items
Sometimes singles dating online feel like they are nothing other than a 2-dimensional object. What you need to remember is that online dating is simply the first step in building a relationship between two people. The goal is to successfully move your relationship from offline to online. Remember, there could be heavy competition for dates — and you can’t afford to blow your first impression, either online or off-line.
Here are some first-date mistakes that you absolutely can’t afford to make if you want to put a second date on your social calendar:
1. Avoid the ex-factor. I’ve seen too many dinner dates that start out great only to end up being over before the main course has arrived. Why? Because too many people bring their exes to the table with them. This includes not only former spouses and lovers, but jobs, too. No one wants to hear about your sad past on a first date. Instead, always try to keep it light and fun. Talk about your favorite film, play, vacation spot, book, or what you enjoy doing on the weekends.
2. Flirting with disaster. My dad likes to flirt with waitresses. It’s fine for my parents, as they have been married for over 50 years. Too often, though, I hear about men staring at their cute waitress or having a roving eye while on their first date with someone. So, men: focus on the woman you are meeting. Be captivated by your first-date conversation. Engage with the person sitting across the table from you.
3. Don’t dress for the bedroom. Men are visual creatures and they can imagine undressing women with their eyes the moment they meet. This doesn’t mean that women should wear a sexy low-cut outfit showing off lots of cleavage. Men like to slowly unwrap a package, so to speak. Unless you’re just looking for a hook-up, women should leave the sexy clothes for when they really are ready for a more intimate relationship.
4. Obey the food and beverage rule. While dating can be expensive if it includes multiple restaurants or drink tabs every week, if a man asks a woman out for coffee on a first date, he should offer to order her a beverage. If you think this is ridiculous, you’d be surprised. Often, I hear about coffee dates where a gentleman will either bring his own water or just refuse to order a cup of tea for the woman he is meeting. If he is truly interested in getting to a second date, a coffee date means exactly that: it involves a beverage. Offer to order a coffee. A lunch or dinner date means ordering something to eat.
5. Hide the iPhone and BlackBerry. Sure, you connect with others online. You can even use MatchMobile™ while you’re on the go. But when you get to your date, put your smartphone in your pocket or purse and leave it there. It shouldn’t be a visible accessory on your date. Otherwise, it will give the impression that you are waiting for a better invitation to come in. Avoid the urge to check your messages and text a friend while you’re on a date.
6. Do your homework. Just as you should be prepared for a job interview by researching your prospective employer to make a good impression, you should remember important details about the date you’re meeting. If your calendar is filled with dates, it can be confusing. Nothing is more of a turn-off than a man asking a woman why she never got married when she’s actually been married twice before. A man won’t feel good about his date when she asks why he decided to go into real estate when he’s really a doctor. Print out your date’s profile. Make notes on the page outlining the conversations you have together. Mention something that you liked about his or her profile. Don’t act like this person’s just another number in a series and that you’re too busy dating around to remember individual details.
7. It’s a first date, not an instant relationship. Dating and courting is a process. Even if you connect on a deeper level and think he or she could be The One, don’t start talking about your future together right now. It’s just a first date. Enjoy the fact that it’s going well. Be excited that you both want to put a second date on the calendar, but don’t start filling up someone’s life as the instant girlfriend or instant boyfriend. It can come across as needy and you might get a voicemail message later on canceling date number two. Show your date that you have a full and happy life. Having someone special in it will just make it that much better. And remember that courtship should be enjoyable!
Even if there is no chemistry on your date, don’t be rude and walk out. What if your date happens to have a friend he or she’d be happy to introduce to you that would be a better fit? What if your date invites you to a business-networking event? Look at every date as a possibility for expanding your social network or meeting a new friend. If it turns into a romantic relationship, then you’ve hit the jackpot.
Julie Spira is a worldwide authority in online dating who posted her first online dating profile in 1994 and author of the bestseller, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online. Spira’s dating advice has been featured in such publications as The New York Times, Los Angeles Times, Glamour, Men’s Health, Woman’s Day, and more. Visit her at CyberDatingExpert.com.
Finding Your Perfect Match
July 26, 2010
After Dr. Pepper Schwartz’s appearance on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show, I just needed to share more with you. It’s with great pleasure for me to add her book, Finding Your Perfect Match
Dr. Schwartz is the Chief Relationship Expert at Perfect Match, an online dating site that she helped create the Duet Compatibility Profiles for. Her book helps readers identify the eight specific personality characteristics that they need to understand about themselves-and others. In her book, she helps singles determine who they would be compatible with based upon similar personalities. Her book includes a series of self-tests that have helped thousands of people in their search for love, gives them an intimate and honest appraisal of who they are, what they want, and ultimately, who they should be with.
Some of the lifestyle issues she focuses on includes: money, sex, children, core values, and social life. You’ll learn what your deal-breakers are and be able to determine whether someone is a potential match before getting deeply involved. If you are looking for a lasting relationship, this book may be for you.
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Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show with Dr. Pepper Schwartz
July 22, 2010
Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert
Join Cyber Dating Expert Julie Spira on Saturday July 24, 2010, as she welcomes Dr. Pepper Schwartz, Chief Relationship Expert at Perfect Match to Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show.
Dr. Schwartz is the author of 15 relationship books, including Finding Your Perfect Match. She co-developed the Duet® Total Compatibility System for Perfect Match’s online dating site and has appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show, The Today Show, Dr. Phil, and Good Morning America.
We are honored to have her as our guest on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show, where she will be providing her expert relationship advice and dating tips for singles looking for love online.
Call in with your relationship questions on Saturday, July 24, 2010 at 2pm/ET, 12pm/CT, 11am/PT at 646-929-0012 to learn more about dating, love and romance in a Web 2.0 World.
The Love Hypnotist on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show
July 17, 2010
Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert
Imagine being with your ideal partner. Doesn’t that sound wonderful?
Listen to Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show, where my guest, Debra Berndt, the Love Hypnotist and author of the bestseller, Let Love In: Open Your Heart and Mind to Attract Your Ideal Partner, provided invaluable dating advice and tips for how to find the love you are looking for online.
You’ll hear about how self-hypnosis can help change your thought patterns and how easy it really is to do. You’ll find out how to get that “hypno-glow.”
If you find yourself constantly drawn to the same type of women or men over and over again, and realize that it isn’t working for you, listen to Debra’s relationship advice. This includes thinking about 3 positive things about yourself that you want to be on your first date.
Listen to the program, where you’ll learn more about dating, love and romance in a Web 2.0 World.
