Valentine’s Day Survival Guide

Cyber-Dating Expert Valentine'sWhether you love Valentine’s Day or dread it, our Survival Guide will help you get through the day with tips for your loved ones, as well as yourself.

The big question today is, would you go on a first date on Valentine’s Day? We said yes. According to Facebook, 70% of their  relationship status changes are announced on Valentine’s Day. Perhaps there’s something to it!

Speaking of Facebook, this week we launched a new site called Facebook Love Stories. We hope you check it out and let us know if you met your sweetheart on Facebook.

Our friends at eHarmony are having a F.R.E.E. Communication weekend from February 14th to 18th. Details here:

Happy Valentine’s Day. Wishing you much love and joy in cyberspace, or wherever you may roam.

10 Valentine’s Day Date Ideas

Are you a last minute planner, or are you looking for something to do for fun with your girlfriends tonight? Here are 10 fun ideas.

From riding the Ferris Wheel, going to a Fortune Teller, or having In-Room Dining, there’s something for everyone. [Read More]  

 

 Social Media Rules for a Happy Digital Valentine’s Day  

Not sure if you should post that mushy status update on his Facebook wall? Should you brag about your dozen roses?Read our 7 Dos and Don’ts to make sure you’re not getting unfriended on Valentine’s Day. [Read More]  

 

 Valentine’s Gifts for your Digital Sweetheart or BFF

Valentine's Gifts

If you’re already friends on Facebook, the world’s largest social network is making it easy for you to send someone a Valentine’s gift this year, without having to leave the house or your computer behind. So don’t fret that Valentine’s is today and you’re still empty-handed. Here are our favorites. [Read More] 

Love Potions – Stuffed Strawberries with Mascarpone Cheese and Dark Chocolate

Love Potions

Looking for a delicious desert to make for your Valentine? This sumptuous Stuffed Strawberries With Mascarpone Cheese and Dark Chocolate recipe from the Seduction Cookbook is a perfect for couples who prefer dining out but like their “dessert” at home. [Read More] 

 

Dating and Digital Manners – Watch our CNN Interview

 Beauty – Red Velvet Facial Mask

Red velvet Facial MaskStaying in tonight?
Pamper yourself with this simple luscious treatment from our friend Gia Marie and Gia Skin Care.

 

 

 

Julie Spira is a leading online dating expert and digital matchmaker. She creates irresistible profiles for singles on the dating scene. For more dating advice, follow @JulieSpira on Twitter, sign up for the Weekly Flirt and like us at Facebook.com/CyberDatingExpert.

Valentine’s Gifts for Your Digital Sweetheart or BFF

Digital SweetheartIf you’re already friends on Facebook, the world’s largest social network is making it easy for you to send someone a Valentine’s gift this year, without having to leave the house or your computer behind. So don’t fret that Valentine’s is around the corner and you’re empty-handed.

Facebook Gifts

All you need to do is visit the profile home page of the object of your affection or a friend you’d like to spoil this Valentine’s Day and click on the pink gift box with the pretty red ribbon. Select a gift within your budget and then choose an eCard to go along with the gift. You’ll have the option to share that you sent a gift to your friend, long-distance love,  or someone you might have a digital crush on.

Facebook will notify the recipient that they’ve received a gift from you. They can then provide their address anonymously and be surprised when it arrives.

Even if their gift arrives after Valentine’s Day, they’ll know that you made the effort to select it in time. If they don’t accept the gift within 2 weeks, it will be automatically canceled and your credit card will be refunded.

Not sure which gifts to select?

Here are five gift ideas to send to the object of your affection, or your BFF.

 iTunes Gift Card.

iTunes Heart

Who doesn’t love music? Let him or her pick their favorite love songs this Valentine’s Day. $10-$50.

Starbucks Gift Card.

Starbuck's

If you went on a first date for coffee, and you know he or she is a caffeine junkie, you can memorialize the day with a gift card to Starbuck’s $5-25.

The L-O-V-E Strawberry Gram.

Chocolate Strawberries

These six juicy, premium strawberries are hand-dipped in delicious dark Belgian chocolate and decorated with white chocolate lettering to spell L-O-V-E or drizzled with colorful confection. Presented in an elegant gift box, they’re the perfect Valentine’s treat for someone who’s been waiting to hear those special three words. $15.

 

 Anti-Valentine’s Candy.

Anti Valentine's Hearts

Sending a gift to your single friend? Check out the Anti-Valentine’s Candy, which celebrates his or her single-hood. You can let your friend know it’s time to “Stop Kissing Frogs” or encourage them with “Plenty of Fish in the Sea” candies. $5.

Pick Up Lines Coaster Set.

Valentine's Coasters

Looking for a last minute date? Try these cute pick-up lines coasters or send a set to your single friends to help them if they’re feeling shy. From “Do you believe in love at first sight…Or should I walk by again?” to “Do you have a sunburn…Or are you always this hot?” they’re worth a chuckle or two. $15.

What do you want as a gift this Valentine’s Day?

Julie Spira is a top online dating expert and bestselling author of The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online. Fore online dating advice, visit CyberDatingExpert.com, follow @JulieSpira on Twitter and at Facebook.com/CyberDatingExpert.

Cyber-Dating Expert 2010 Holiday Gift Guide

Ho, Ho, Ho, It’s Here! The Cyber-Dating Expert Holiday Gift Guide

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We’ve selected our top 10 favorite romantic gifts for the Cyber-Dating Expert Holiday Gift Guide to take you from the kitchen to the bedroom.

Enjoy and Happy Holidays!

Jewelry for Her

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Tiffany bracelet

Return to Tiffany Bead Bracelet
Inspired by a Tiffany key ring from 1969, this celebrated collection bears a hallmark that reminds one that there’s no place like Tiffany. Small heart tag in sterling silver on a black onyx bead bracelet. 7.5″ long. Beads, 8 mm.

Price: $250.00

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Jewelry for Him

compass cufflinks

He’ll Always Know Where to Find You With These Compass Cufflinks

Actual working compass will send him home right into your arms.

Price $33.99

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Fragrance

It’s Still Chanel

My favorite cologne for decades will never go out of style.
If I had ten stockings this holiday season, I’d be happy with ten bottles of Chanel No. 5.

Price $72.00

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Music

Let it Snow

Michael Buble – Let It Snow

Winter, spring, summer or fall. Michael Buble’s music is wonderful all year long. This CD will certainly get you in the mood for the holidays.

Price $6.00

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In the Kitchen

Flirty Little Dinner Plates

Flirting While Dining

These hand-painted lipstick-red rimmed plates read, “hey, handsome!” and “hi, beautiful!”
They are meant to stir those butterfly feelings from a couple’s first in-home dining experience.

Flirty Little Dinner Plates: Price $70/set of 2

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A Candle for a Scandle

ScandalCandle

A Scandle? Why Not?

Back by popular demand! The Scandle is a candle that burns at 2 degrees above body temperature to produce a soothing oil for romantic massage.   Made with 100% natural ingredients, it’s an ideal gift for a romantic setting and is a gift couples can share.

Cost $ 22.95

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For the Flirt in You

Cheekd Single Tease cardsFlip me cards

2010 will go down in history as the year of the flirt cards. Here are my top picks when just a flirt and smile will do.

Cheek’d cards. 50 Cards. 1-month membership. Cost $25.00

Flip Me Dating 20 cards. 3-month membership. Cost: $24.99

Single Tease 12 cards. Cost $12.00

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Naughty or Nice?

Naughty Weekend Gift Basket

No need to worry about getting coal in your stocking this year. The Naughty weekender kit will be enjoyed by the two of you, after the holidays are over. Kit includes chocolate warming massage oil, sizzling body candy, sensual body balm, satin eye mask, four mood setting tea lights and a spinner game. With sexy scenarios and suggestions just a spin away, this kit will ensure any couple has a weekend full of sensual pleasures. Contents: Spinner game, massage lotion, tea lights, sizzling body candy, satin eye mask, bliss balm & satin storage pouch “

Romantic Gift – Naughty Weekend Gift Basket

Price : $42.00

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Books for Love

The Perils of Cyber-Dating

For the Hopeful Romantic in You

We’d be remiss if we didn’t suggest our online dating book, still on the Amazon bestseller list for 22-months.

Buy it on Amazon. Cost $11.53 -$13.22

Buy it on Barnes and Noble. Cost $15.25

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Lovely Lingerie

baby doll

You’re Still a Baby….Doll

This baby doll eyelet lingerie by Victoria’s Secret in holiday red is guaranteed to steam up the bedroom.

Price: $35.00

The Oil of Love

 

It’s been around for ages, but lately there has been a renewed interest in the Kama Sutra Oil of Love kits.  It’s a fabulous stocking stuffer and a great addition to The Cyber Love Shoppe.