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9 Red Flags in Online Dating by Julie Spira, the Digital Matchmaker
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9 Red Flags in Online Dating Every Single Should Know

From the Naked Profile to the Sob Story Scammer, learn how to spot the 9 biggest red flags in online dating before you get emotionally ...
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The Cuffing Season Playbook Cover
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The Cuffing Season Playbook

Ready to get in the game? Follow the 7 stages of Cuffing Season from scouting and drafting to the Playoffs and finding your MVP.
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21 Flirty Fall Conversation Starters – Skip the small talk and spark chemistry this cuffing season. Dating tips from Julie Spira, Online Dating Expert & The Digital Matchmaker®
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Skip the Small Talk: 21 Flirty Online Conversation Starters for Fall

Fall is the season for connection — and the perfect time to refresh your dating game. Try these 21 flirty online conversation starters to skip ...
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9 Red Flags in Online Dating by Julie Spira, the Digital Matchmaker
Dating Advice

9 Red Flags in Online Dating Every Single Should Know

From the Naked Profile to the Sob Story Scammer, learn how to spot the 9 biggest red flags in online dating before you get emotionally ...
READ MORE
The Cuffing Season Playbook Cover
Dating Advice

The Cuffing Season Playbook

Ready to get in the game? Follow the 7 stages of Cuffing Season from scouting and drafting to the Playoffs and finding your MVP.
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Table for two overlooking the water at sunset, set for a first date
Dating Advice

7 Lessons on Love from the Digital Matchmaker

Celebrate National Matchmaker Day with seven love lessons from the Digital Matchmaker, from staying true to yourself and remaining curious to spotting green flags, keeping ...
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Love Lessons from Dolly Parton
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Love Lessons from Dolly Parton

Dolly Parton left us more than unforgettable music. Her warmth, humor, kindness, independence, and authenticity offer beautiful lessons about love and relationships.
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Woman looking out a window while reflecting on her long-term marriage and the decision of gray divorce.
Dating Advice

Gray Divorce: Four Questions to Ask Before You Decide to Stay or Leave

Gray divorce is one of life's most difficult decisions. Before deciding whether to stay or leave your long-term marriage, ask yourself these four important questions ...
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Split image showing a woman looking at her phone beside a happy couple together, illustrating the contrast between AI companionship and authentic human connection.
Dating Advice

What the Rise of AI Companions Really Says About Modern Dating

AI companions are growing at a remarkable pace, but what does that really say about modern dating? Drawing on new research, industry trends, and decades ...
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Julie Spira featured on KCBS Radio's Ask the Expert segment discussing the rising cost of dating.
Dating Advice

Dating Is Expensive, but Romance Doesn’t Have to Be

As dating costs continue to rise, singles are rethinking how they meet, connect, and build relationships. From inexpensive first dates to video chats and slow ...
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Quote graphic featuring Julie Spira with the message, “Don’t confuse emotional unpredictability with passion,” and the phrase, “Clarity is the new chemistry.”
Dating Advice

The 3 C’s of Modern Dating — And None of Them Are Chemistry

Clarity, consistency, and connection are becoming the new emotional green flags in modern dating. Discover why chemistry alone is no longer enough for relationship-minded singles ...
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Bumble dating app illustrating the shift beyond endless swiping in modern online dating
Dating Advice

Bumble Is Ditching the Swipe as Singles Navigate a New Era of Online Dating

Bumble’s decision to move beyond endless swiping reflects a larger shift happening across online dating. Singles are prioritizing meaningful conversations, emotional clarity, and intentional connections ...
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Julie Spira, Cyber Dating Expert, speaking on ABC News Live about the trend of job seekers using dating apps as networking tools.
Dating Advice

From Romance to Résumé: When Dating Apps Expand Beyond Love

Job seekers are turning to dating apps for professional networking. After appearing on ABC News Live, Julie Spira breaks down the trend, the risks, and ...
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AI Boyfriends and Girlfriends
Dating Advice

AI Boyfriends and AI Girlfriends: Trend or Trap?

AI companions are gaining popularity, but can artificial intimacy replace real emotional reciprocity? Here’s what singles should consider when dating in an AI world.
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Woman looking out an airplane window during a quiet moment of reflection
Dating Advice

Dating Safely in an AI World: When Connection Moves Faster Than Trust

Dating has always required intuition, patience, and judgment. What’s changed is the speed. In an AI-driven dating world, connection can move faster than trust — ...
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