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How to Get Engaged at Any Age

Jul 26th

Engaged at Any Age

It’s with great enthusiasm to tell you about this F.R.E.E. Global Video event, hosted by my friend Jaki Sabourin including special interviews with John Gray, from the Venus and Mars series and 30 other dating and relationship experts, including myself!

I have a feeling you’re going to like it as well and it’s filled with free gifts!

Here are some questions you might be asking yourself.
  • Do you ever feel like you are waiting around for the right man to walk through the door or show up in your inbox?
  • And maybe sometimes you start to wonder if love is even in the cards for you?
I can assure you of one thing, if you want true love, you’ll have it.
Love isn’t something you find, it’s something you deliberately choose and attract.
We’re going to teach you how to do this. No more hoping. No more waiting.
Because the truth is, if you want to find your soulmate, you have to take intentional action!
My colleague, Love and Dating expert, Jaki Sabourin is back with her most popular online event, Engaged at any Age®. Would you like to find out here the REAL way to attract love into your life?’
I’ll be doing a full session on how to create an Irresistible Dating Profile that you won’t want to miss1
This time around, world-renowned author John Gray (Men Are From Mars, Women are From Venus) is going to open this event with Jaki in a live call “How to Train Your Man” followed by 30 other leading experts that have come on board to share their wisdom and insights for finding lasting love.
Let me tell you how this is different.
You likely get a lot of emails from dating experts who are teaching women how to change themselves in order to attract a man. That’s the OLD way! This is the new way.
Engaged at any Age® is about training MEN to do what you want them to do.
Preparing MEN to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Empowering yourself to be open, confident and sexy and DELIBERATE in your actions.
This training series is a like getting a Master’s Degree in ATTRACTION!
We are going to show you how to:
  • Train a man to respect you, your needs and your deepest desires
  • Set healthy boundaries so that you are never sacrificing your true self
  • Master sexual confidence so that you are irresistible
  • Send powerful messages to men so that only the ones you want approach you!
  • Train men to communicate easily and openly. No more guessing games!
  • Foster a sense of intimacy (with you in the lead!)
And you will continue to receive free gifts every single day of the event!
You are in charge of your love life and that is exactly how it should be!
Finding the relationship of your dreams is not about how you look, what you say or where you go.
It’s about instinct.
It’s about understanding the powerful principles of attraction that have tied men to women for centuries and using them TODAY to deliberately create the love of your life.

Sure. We can tell you how to get a date.

And we will Here.

But are you just looking for a dinner out? Or are you ready for a lifelong SOULMATE? Do you just want to be approached? Or do you want to be adored?
We are going to take you step by step through the practices you need to master to draw in your ideal love.
I’m so excited to be a part of this. Jaki’s approach is modern and multi-dimensional and she has brought together a power-house panel with a goal of teaching you the most effective, most empowering strategies for manifesting love in your life.
Is a deep and happy relationship on your wish list? You can choose one. You can create one.
You can start right here!
Here’s to getting off the roller-coaster and settling in with love,

Wishing you much love and joy.

Julie

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Jul 26th

 

Quote of the Day: “A smile is the best makeup any girl can wear.” ~ Marilyn Monroe

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PokéDates Launched to Help Pokémon Go Fans. Here’s How it Works

Jul 20th

Pokemon Go PokeDatesIt was inevitable. Pokémon Go fans now have a dating site to meet other fans. Created by Project Fix Up, PokéDates will help you connect outside to others with similar interests.

Here’s how it works and what to do get started with this dating site.

  1. Select Pickup Preferences. This is where you state your sex, age, preference on who to date, height, college, religion, and just how picky you are or aren’t.
  2. Fix up:  Weaknesses. List the things that make you swoon. From cooking, to romantic, to muscular arms. You get the idea.
  3. Fix up: Deal Breakers. Hate a smoker, list it. Mean to restaurant staff, say so. Is in a relationship and looking for a hookup, take a pass.
  4. Select Themes. Let people know what kind of fix ups you’d like to go on from a list of photos. Selections include: coffee, whiskey, craft beer, craft cocktails, dive bars, desserts, wine, and of course PokeDates.
  5. Make it Social. To keep the social in PokeDates, you can agree to going out in a group instead of just a one-on-one date.
  6. About You. This is where you check off your hobbies and passions. From stating you’re a smoker or non-smoker to your political belief, check off as many as you can to get the best match.
  7. Upload a minimum 3 Photos. You’ll be allowed to post more than three, but they (and we) recommend at least three photos.

Once your profile is completed, they’ll ask you to reconfirm your email and verify you via text and you’re set to go. They’ll review your profile (we like that) to keep the site safe.

PokéDate is free to join, but once they create a fix up for you, you’re charged at $20 for your date. If you use the promo code of Project Fixup is offering first dates for free with the promo code of “POKEDATES2016,” you’ll get your first date free.

So get ready to share your score and level on Pokémon go with someone with similar passions.

Happy Poké Dating.

Julie Spira is America’s Top Online Dating Expert. She’s a bestselling author internationally known dating coach who has been helping singles find love online for over two decades.

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Tinder Tales on The Tomorrow Show

Jul 19th

Tomorrow ShowIf you missed our live stream on The Tomorrow Show with Kevin Undergaro on AfterBuzz TV, we tackled the subject of how difficult it can be while dating, using mobile dating apps, and finding a meaningful relationship.

In this segment, we were joined by several single daters with stories that will have you ROTFL.

I chimed in on what the daters were doing wrong and critiqued some online and mobile dating profiles.

Without further digital ado, and before swiping left or swiping right on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, or more, watch our segment below for lessons and laughter of #TinderTales.

The dating segment starts at 1:07 below.

Spoiler alert: The best story was saved for last.

Julie Spira is America’s Top Online Dating and Mobile Dating Expert. She was an early adopter of Internet dating and has been coaching singles on finding love online for over 2 decades. Julie’s Swiping Right program helps singles make the most of their Tinder profiles, regardless of their dating goals.

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Badoo’s Selfie Feature May Prevent a Catfish

Jul 15th

Selfie dating

Selfies. Love them, love them not.

While selfies aren’t your best photos to appear on your online dating profile, your potential dates do want to know exactly who you are and if you resemble your profile pictures.

For this reason, our friends at Badoo have created a new feature in their mobile dating app called the “Selfie Request.”

According to their press release, the new selfie feature allows women to request a photo from a male user after they have received an initial message to confirm that their potential match is genuine and using a real photo. From there, a male user can either send the requested selfie or decline.

Women who come to us for Irresistible Profiles and Dating Coaching are fearful at times that the date will be like someone they’ve viewed on MTV’s ‘Catfish,’ or their potential date will be misrepresenting themselves in some way. While we believe online dating is mostly safe for both men and women, any feature that adds comfort to the process is one where we’ll give a thumbs up to!

A Pew Internet Research survey showed that over 54 percent of online daters have felt that someone misrepresented themselves on their profile. So ladies, go ahead and request a selfie from a potential date.

Online and mobile dating safety is important to both men and women. Currently the selfie request feature is only available to women, but in time we hope they add the feature for men to use as well.

So request away and have fun with their new mobile app feature.

Guys, don’t decline the rest, or your chances of getting a date with her will be zero.

Are you using selfies on your dating profile?

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Julie Spira is America’s Top Online Dating and Mobile Dating Expert. She’s a bestselling author and as an early adopter of the Internet, has been coaching singles on finding love online for over 20 years. Find out more about how our Irresistible Profiles will help you find your dream date.

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