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9 Red Flags in Online Dating by Julie Spira, the Digital Matchmaker
Dating Advice

9 Red Flags in Online Dating Every Single Should Know

From the Naked Profile to the Sob Story Scammer, learn how to spot the 9 biggest red flags in online dating before you get emotionally ...
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The Cuffing Season Playbook Cover
Dating Advice

The Cuffing Season Playbook

Ready to get in the game? Follow the 7 stages of Cuffing Season from scouting and drafting to the Playoffs and finding your MVP.
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21 Flirty Fall Conversation Starters – Skip the small talk and spark chemistry this cuffing season. Dating tips from Julie Spira, Online Dating Expert & The Digital Matchmaker®
Dating Advice

Skip the Small Talk: 21 Flirty Online Conversation Starters for Fall

Fall is the season for connection — and the perfect time to refresh your dating game. Try these 21 flirty online conversation starters to skip ...
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woman holding heart mug and thinking about Valentine's.
Dating Advice

Valentine’s Week, Decoded: What to Do (and What Not to Overthink)

Valentine’s Week is here — and before you overthink it, take a breath. In 2026, Valentine’s Day lands on a Saturday, followed by a long ...
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Illustration of a February 14 calendar with hearts, symbolizing Valentine’s Day dating and relationship milestones.
Dating Advice

Valentine’s Dating Expectations: What to Know Before February 14

Valentine’s Day isn’t about perfection — it’s about expectations. Here’s how to communicate clearly, plan intentionally, and avoid common dating missteps before February 14.
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10 digital matchmaker rules for dating in an ai world
Dating Advice

10 Digital Matchmaker Rules for Dating in an AI World

Dating is moving faster than ever — but real connection still requires clarity, judgment, and emotional presence. These 10 Digital Matchmaker Rules explain how to ...
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Football with hearts symbolizing the connection between Super Bowl Sunday and Valentine’s Day dating pressure
Dating Advice

It’s Game Time: Why the Super Bowl is Like Valentine’s Day

The Super Bowl and Valentine’s Day fall a weekend apart during cuffing season's last act, creating heightened expectations in dating. Here’s how to navigate timing, ...
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Illustration of a heart made of digital circuits, symbolizing the intersection of technology and love in modern dating
Dating Advice

Dating in an AI World: What Technology Can — and Can’t — Do for Love

AI is changing how people date, but it can’t build trust, consistency, or emotional connection. Here’s what technology can — and can’t — do for ...
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A woman sitting in natural light, calmly holding her phone and reflecting, representing thoughtful online dating and emotional clarity.
Dating Advice

Clarity Green Flags: How Aligned Dating Feels (No Coding Required)

Modern dating isn’t lacking options — it’s lacking clarity. Clarity Green Flags are the calm, steady signals that show when dating is aligned and working, ...
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Quote from the Valentine's Dating Playbook by Julie Spira: Cuffing season's final act isn't about russhing romance. IT's about recognizing momentum
Dating Advice

30 Days Until Valentine’s Day: Cuffing Season’s Final Act

Valentine’s Day is one month away. Cuffing Season’s Final Act isn’t about rushing romance — it’s about recognizing momentum and dating with clarity.
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Cover of The Valentine’s Dating Playbook by Julie Spira, with a quote reading: “Some seasons whisper. Valentine’s season speaks clearly.”
Dating Advice

Book Release Announcement: The Valentine’s Dating Playbook Is Here — And This Season, We’re Choosing Clarity

Valentine’s season has a way of turning up the volume in dating. Situationships don’t feel like enough anymore, and what once felt easy can start ...
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Dating Sunday profile checklist for reviewing your dating app profile before logging in
Dating Advice

Dating Profile Checklist: 5 Smart Updates That Actually Get Results

Your dating profile sets the tone before any conversation begins. Five smart updates to photos, prompts, and messaging can lead to better matches and stronger ...
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Dating Advice

Dating Trends to Expect in 2026

Singles are stepping into 2026 with clarity and confidence. Fewer dates, better matches, less swipe fatigue, and more emotional safety are fueling real second-chapter love—and ...
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Dating Advice

Surviving Breakup Day: Why December 11 Is the Day So Many Couples Split Up

December 11—often called Breakup Day—is one of the most common dates for couples to split. Holiday stress, pressure, and emotional clarity all play a role. ...
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The Holiday Dating Playbook by Julie Spira – free 25-page holiday and cuffing season dating guide.
Dating Advice

Holiday Dating Season Is Here — And So Is My New Holiday Dating Playbook

Julie Spira’s 32-page Holiday Dating Playbook is here—full of tips, scripts, and confidence boosters for the season. Download your copy today.
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