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How to Look and Feel Flirty on Halloween

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Cyber-Dating Expert Halloween There’s certainly a treat at the end of October every year as we end the month with Halloween.

Halloween is the time where you have permission to flirt more, act sexier, dress with very little on, and just have a good time. I believe in dressing up for the occasion every year. You’ll typically start noticing costume stores popping up during the summer months and pumpkin patches start to appear in September.

So how does a single person enjoy this fun and flirty holiday? I believe that Halloween gives you permission to jump out of your comfort zone and become more approachable. Besides the youthful trick-or-treaters ringing your doorbell, singles holiday parties are in abundance. I suggest you RSVP to as many as possible, grab a few friends and go out with a smile on your face along with a devilish grin.

In preparation for Halloween, it’s also a good time to brush up on your flirting skills. Dr. Pat Allen, author of “Getting to I Do” and one of my mentors, teaches the 5-second flirt technique and encourages singles to flirt with 5 men every day and gaze into their eyes for five very long seconds. Although it’s a challenge and may seem like an eternity, on Halloween it should be a piece of cake, or at least a handful of candy corn.

Let’s start with selecting your Halloween costume. Although you wouldn’t dress like this on a first date, you now have permission to show some skin without the expectation of jumping into the bedroom. Some of my favorites are from Leg Avenue.

Halloween Cheerleader Costume
Halloween Cheerleader

1. The Cheerleader. What guy didn’t fantasize about being with a cheerleader in high school? Now’s his chance with this sexier version guaranteed to put a smile on his face. Cost $38.

Halloween Costume French Maid
Halloween – French Maid

2. The French Maid. This class Halloween costume never goes out of style. Now’s your chance to flirt with him with your duster in tow. Who knows just where he might be ticklish? Cost $65.

Halloween - Queen of Hearts
Halloween – Queen of Hearts

3. Queen of Hearts. Poker night will never be the same after he sees you in this Queen of Hearts outfit. Approach him and make a bet. See if he ups the ante. Price $75.

Don’t forget to bring your camera, iPhone or Smartphone and set your camera settings to movie. Go up to that cute guy and compliment him on his costume and ask if you can take his photo. Better yet, jump into the shot and have your friend take a picture of you and that hot guy. Then ask him if you can friend him on Facebook, post to Pinterest or Instagram. Ask him if you can email or text him the photos and you’ll be on your way to a fun digital courtship.

Julie Spira is an online dating and relationship expert. Visit her at where you can share your Internet dating stories. Follow her on Twitter @JulieSpira and on

Julie Spira is America's Top Online Dating Expert. She's an award-winning dating coach who's been helping singles find love online for 25+ years. Follow @JulieSpira on IG.

1 thought on “How to Look and Feel Flirty on Halloween”

  1. Cute article. I encourage online daters to always get off the computer during certain times of the year, especially Halloween. What better time to make try approaching people in real life than a holiday that gives everyone an excuse to talk to someone about their costume!

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