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Dating Advice – Why Women Should Initiate Contact Online and Offline

With today’s modern technology becoming a major part of our daily routine,? it’s time to toss out the old rules book, or you might end up alone on another Saturday evening.

In my video, I discuss my dating advice and cyberdating tips to change your fairly empty InBox to one that becomes overflowing.

You may be thinking, shouldn’t the man always make the first move? You may be saying, I’m an old-fashioned girl and I’d never ask a man out. I say, rethink things if your dream date doesn’t automatically find you.

This includes doing your own search and sending a short complimentary email to a potential date on your favorite online dating site. Often, the man will feel flattered to hear from you. At times, he can be overwhelmed with the many choices and you might have gotten overlooked. Look at this initial email as a simple nudge or a smile so you will appear on his radar, or in reality, in his InBox.

Men get frustrated so easily after writing to many women without receiving a response. You might make his day, and if so, a date may be added to your calendar and you might find yourself in a nice new relationship.

Think of it like creating hints for your wish list for the outfits you might want as a birthday gift. Go ahead and wink or flirt, but if you really want to get his attention, flattery will boost his ego with a personalized email. He may be pushing the reply button in a New York minute.

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Dating Advice – Online Dating Safety Tips [Video]

If you’re thinking of trying online dating, there are several rules to follow when it comes to dating safely.

Remember, when you are meeting someone for the first time, to meet in a public place. Let a friend know where you are going and never give out your last name or home address. Practice these safe cyberdating tips and enjoy the experience. For more relationship advice, visit Genconnect TV

Leave a comment if you thought this video was helpful. We’d like to hear about your experiences with online dating.

Cyberdating Tips for the New Year

2010 in arrivo

Happy New Year


As we count down the minutes and hours until 2010, it’s time to ring in the New Year with some cyberdating tips for the new decade.

If you found yourself alone again this holiday, it’s time to take a personal inventory of what you truly want in a relationship. Here’s my dating advice for those looking for love online.

1. Cyber-Dating Tip #1 – Narrow down your search. Do your friends complain that you are too picky? Have they stopped fixing you up? There’s nothing wrong with knowing exactly what you want in a relationship. Remember, no one really gets it all. We are an imperfect society. Make a list of what is most important to you. Number it from 1-10. Now, focus on the first 3 items on your list. Is it Religion? Bicycling? Hiking? Strolling through museums? Put those key words in your search. You might be delighted to see what pops up.

2. Cyber-Dating Tip #2 – ?Reach out and reconnect. Did you get too busy during the year and miss out on meeting someone you started to communicate with online? Take a look in your Inbox and find those you found interesting but didn’t have the time to meet. Reach out and send an email with a simple, “Happy New Year.” If their profile is still online, assume they haven’t met “the one” yet. It may be a time for a new beginning for both of you.

3. Cyber-Dating Tip #3 – Refresh your profile. If you are satisfied with the online dating profile you currently have, edit a few words here and there. Your profile will become refreshed and chances are will show up higher in a search.

If you are looking for some online dating sites to choose from, visit our Dating Community for some that I recommend. If you are ready for a new look, check out IRRESISTIBLE Profiles to help you stand out in the crowded playing field.

Happy New Year and all the best for 2010.

Julie Spira is a dating coach and author of The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online. Visit her at

Radio Appearance – Upfront and Straightforward with Alan Roger Currie

Listen to Upfront & Straightforward with Alan Roger Currie on Thursday, December 10th where I will be his featured guest on the subject, Is Online Dating For You?

We will be discussing this hot topic as well as my book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online. Singles are joining online dating sites in record numbers as the holiday season is here. Learn how to find a date for the holidays and more.

Call in at 866-691-7713 at 7:00pm/Pacific Time, 9:00/Central Time, 10:00/Eastern time for cyberdating tips and to find out if online dating is for you.
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Julie Spira to Appear on E! Television




Los Angeles, CA (October 26, 2009) Cyber-Dating Expert and author, Julie Spira will be appearing on the E! Entertainment television program, THAT Morning Show.

Spira will be sharing her top cyberdating tips from her online dating book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online. Spira helps singles navigate the online dating world to attract the love they truly want and helps single spot the red flags before it’s too late.

Spira’s guest appearance will be on Friday, November 6, 2009. The program airs at 6:00am – 9:00 am and is also available online.

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