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Match Poll Shows Men and Women Agree on Wearing Red on a Date
Red Hot I’ve always said single women should wear red on a date and on their online dating profile primary photos. It’s not just because red is my favorite color, but research from the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology at the University of Rochester also proved that women who wore red on their online …
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Why Does My Boyfriend Still Chat Online
Dear Julie, I’m frustrated with something happening in my relationship and hope you can help. Can you please help me understand what my boyfriend means when he says, “He misses chatting to girls, because he enjoys their conversations more than male conversations.” He added that he also misses the fact that he can talk to …
Almost 1/2 Women Dating Online are Single Moms
It’s Mother’s Day weekend and time to take a digital peek at the single mother’s who are dating online and what their kids think of their dates. If you think being a single mom reduces your chance of finding love online, this is a misconception among many others. Read on. According to dating site PlentyOfFish, …
Ladies: Make The First Move Online To Score 2.5x More Dates
via GIPHY Gone are the rules of women sitting by the phone, waiting for a text, waiting for the phone to ring, and waiting for a guy to ask you out first. Once Bumble, the app where the women have control on making the first contact, grew rapidly in popularity, women started thinking differently about …
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Confused: Is He Ghosting?
A popular topic unfortunately is the trend of ghosting. If you haven’t heard of the term, it’s when someone you’re dating, even someone who calls you their boyfriend or girlfriend just disappears, even when things appear to be going great between the two of you. In today’s Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert column, a woman writes: …
Words, Wine and Women – 1st Time Dating Online
In this episode of Words,Wine and Women, Online Dating Expert and Digital Matchmaker Julie Spira teaches Tara the attorney and Beth the single mom digital dating tips on what to post in their profiles when starting Internet dating and using mobile dating apps for the first time. Watch this episode if you think the following: …
Is Your New Boyfriend Ghosting?
Many of you have been through this frustrating scenario. You meet a guy and the chemistry is off the charts. You exchange numbers and start texting regularly. You get in a groove, start dating IRL or just have a regular daily text exchanges and POOF after a few weeks or a month, he disappears without …
Her Guy Pulled Away. What Should She Do?
Dear Julie, I’ve been seeing this guy for 3 months and everything seemed to be going great. He’s very affectionate and talked about his feelings openly with me. On the other hand, I always have a hard time expressing my feelings. On New Year’s Eve, he was telling me how he felt about me and …
Online Dating: 5 Signs You Are Talking to a Great Guy
This week, we’re excited to share a post for women daters from our guest blogger, Joshua Pompey. Finding a quality man on the Internet isn’t always easy. Sure, they’re out there in large quantities, but trying to distinguish between the good ones and bad ones can be daunting. One false move and you could wind …
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