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Reading Room – William & Catherine: Their Story

Still feeling like a hopeful romantic after watching the Royal wedding? Andrew Morton, biographer and author of the New York Times bestselling book, Diana: Her True Story,?has just released a title memorializing the romance of Prince William and Kate Middleton.

The book,?William & Catherine: Their Story takes a look at the new Royal couple and let’s us share in their fairytale courtship. Morton has known William since he was born. The book is a welcome addition to the Cyber-Dating Expert reading room. Enjoy!

Reading Room – Sealing the Deal by Dr. Diana Kirschner

Sealing the Deal - Dr. Diana Kirschner

When I had the opportunity to read an advanced copy of Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor’s Guide to Lasting Love, I not only jumped at the chance, but I also formally endorsed this relationship book. I believe in Dr. Diana Kirschner’s work. As the Love Mentor, Dr. Diana gives you concrete tools to really help you find and keep the love you are looking for.

You’ll start off by signing a “Lasting Love Contract.” It’s been proven that if you actually write your desires and wishes down and read them, you’ll have a much more likely chance of having them come to fruition. Dr.Diana also instructs you to write down your fears and will help you determine if he’s really “the one.”

I encourage readers to pick up a copy of this book,? because we all know that everyone wants to love and be loved. With Dr. Diana’s help, you’ll start believing in the possibilities. Her relationship advice is spot on. Sealing the Deal is a welcome addition to the Cyber Dating Expert Reading Room. Enjoy!

Click here to purchase your copy of Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor’s Guide to Lasting Love

Reading Room – eHarmony Guide to Dating the Second Time Around

It’s with great pleasure to add the?eHarmony Guide to Dating the Second Time Around to the Cyber Dating Expert Reading Room.

The book, edited by Dr. Gian Gonzaga, Ph.D, director of research and development at eHarmony Labs gives proven methods to finding a love that lasts. Many people are finding themselves single after a long term relationship or marriage. Whether through divorce, death, or a painful breakup, this book will give you some exercises and tools as you jump back into the dating scene. Like the online dating site eHarmony, the book is focused on serious minded singles who want a long term committed relationship or marriage.

For those of you starting over again, it’s a terrific guidebook to evaluate what you want in your relationship at this stage of your life. You’ll reflect on past relationships on what worked, what you didn’t like, and will take inventory of your personal life.

In addition, I’m delighted that Dr. Gonzaga will be my featured guest on the Valentine’s edition of Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show, scheduled for Saturday, February 13, 2011 at 11am/PST. He’ll be talking about the book in more detail, so I hope you do listen in.

Reading Room – The Frisky 30-Day Breakup Guide

Frisky 30-Day Breakup Guide

It’s January and time to stop your sobbing. If you need some hand holding, pick up a copy of The Frisky 30-Day Breakup Guide: One Month of Manicures, Massages, and Mojitos to Help You Forget About Him by Jamie Beckman and place it now beside your bed.

Jamie provides you with a 30-Day simple to follow Breakup Calendar that will take you anywhere from buying something pink, to giving blood and getting a massage. The book starts with changing your cell phone wallpaper, which means delete his photos on Facebook, on your cell phone, and any other social networking site. The goal after 30-days is to calmly move on with your life, which is easier to do when you stop staring at your digital history.

In reality, it takes about a month of healing for every year that you were together as a couple. So if you’re interested in getting over him in 30 days or less, this book is for you.

So out with the old, and in with the new. It’s time to get started on becoming the fabulous new you.

Click here to purchase a copy>>>

Reading Room – The Man Whisperer

The Man Whisperer

The very first book that we featured in the Cyber-Dating Expert Reading Room was Never Trust a Man in Alligator Loafers by my friend and dating expert, Donna Sozio. Donna has just published her second book along with dating expert Samantha Brett called The Man Whisperer: A Gentle, Results-Oriented Approach to Communication.

From the moment Donna and Sam started writing this book, I was enthusiastic about it. Not only did I endorse the book, but it was an honor to receive one of the very first copies. I am so pleased to add it to the Cyber-Dating Expert Reading Room this month as our featured relationship book.

The Man Whisperer will help you learn a NEW communication technique that gets you ANYTHING YOU WANT, from ANY MAN!

Donna and Sam reveal all their tips, tricks and tactics to get any man want to please women in their new book The Man Whisperer . They teach women how to phrase their requests ?- in a certain way – that makes men do whatever it takes to put a smile on your face… all the while making him think it was his brilliant idea! ?Whether single, married, or somewhere in-between, Man Whispering can turn any guy into a well-tamed man!

And when you purchase your copy, ?(about $10 at -33% off!) you?ll get all these fabulous bonuses from Donna & Sam?s dating expert friends:

? JULIE SPIRA: ?The 5 Secrets to Finding Love Online (If you haven?t downloaded it yet, here?s your chance)

? LISA DAILY: ?7 Reasons Men Love Women Over 40, PLUS: ?2 FREE CHAPTERS OF How To Date Like a Grown-up and Fifteen Minutes of Shame (a novel)

? CHERRY NORRIS: ?How to Meet Your Man, Get Him to Approach You in Less than 6 Seconds and Know if He?s Romantically Interested Within 15 Minutes.

It?s so EASY!

1. ?Just CLICK HERE to purchase The Man Whisperer.

2. ?Then email Donna & Sam at with your Name & Amazon Receipt Number. ?Within a day, you?ll get an email with all these amazing bonuses! ?And of course, you?ll get the book that can make getting what you want from men easier than you ever imagined.

Here are some reviews so far:

“The techniques that Donna and Sam teach in this book will make relationships a lot easier.” ?JULIE SPIRA, DATING EXPERT & BESTSELLING AUTHOR OF THE PERILS OF CYBER DATING: ?CONFESSIONS OF A HOPEFUL ROMANTIC LOOKIN GFOR LOVE ONLINE.

?The Man Whisperer is the answer to all your relationship woes. And sex woes. And ?Why the hell does he do that?? woes.? ?LISA DAILY, BESTSELLING AUTHOR OF STOP GETTING DUMPED!

?A MUST read for every woman who wants and deserves the relationship and life she always dreamed of? And good news, it isn?t rocket science thanks to the Man Whisperer!? ? HOLLIE MCKAY, FOX NEWS.COM ENTERTAINMENT REPORTER/COLUMNIST

“If you want to be happy in your relationships, learn to Man Whisper!” —CHERRY NORRIS, WRITER, DIRECTOR, PRODUCER ?DUTY DATING?

The Carrie Diaries

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I was happy to see that Candace Bushnell released a book just a month before the Sex and the City 2 film. In The Carrie Diaries, Bushnell shares with us what life was like for Carrie Bradshaw during her senior year of high school.

You’ll read about the about Carrie’s first glimpse in becoming a writer, see how her friendships developed, and get a glimpse about her life pre-SATC.

Although the book is targeted to young adults, fans of Sex and the City of all ages?will enjoy hearing about the earlier years in the life of Carrie Bradshaw. It’s a great summer read and I’m please to add it to the Cyber-Dating Expert Reading Room.

Make Every Man Want You


Last month, I had the chance to meet Marie Forleo, author of Make Every Man Want You: How to Be So Irresistible You’ll Barely Keep from Dating Yourself!

Marie will be a featured guest on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show on March 27, 2010. ?In anticipation of her appearance, I welcome her book to the Cyber-Dating Expert Reading Room.

Marie’s bestselling book is filled with dating advice and focuses on the importance of becoming a confident woman and in being true to yourself. ?With this new confidence, it will open the door to attract a quality man.

It’s an enjoyable and practical book with an amazing title.

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Men to Run From


Men to Run from: So You Can Find the Right One to Run to by Catherine Cardinal, Ph.D is the latest addition to the Cyber Dating Expert Reading Room.

This book gives women the needed insight into men and their behaviors, which will hopefully lead to making better relationship choices.

Catherine Cardinal describes 20 personality types of men in her book, including The Artiste, The Wannabe, The Loose Cannon, and The C’mere, Go Away Guy. The book is filled with helpful hints to help you figure out if your man is worth keeping, and once you determine where he fits in, she provides you with terrific dating advice and things you can do should you decide to stay in your relationship.

You will find yourself laughing as you relate to your past relationships and will hopefully send you running into the arms of a compatible man.

Click here to purchase your copy of the book.

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Act Like a Lady – Think Like a Man


It’s the number one relationship book online and in the bookstores. He’s been on Oprah. He’s just been named a special correspondent on parenting and relationships for Good Morning America. It’s been out since the beginning of the year, and it just made it into the Cyber-Dating Expert Reading Room.

You may be wondering, what took it so long? When ABC announced last week that Harvey would be joining the team, I finally went out and purchased his best-selling book.

You may have already read the book. But if you have not, I recommend Steve Harvey’s book, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment?for all the women who really want to know how men think.

It’s a simple book with a basic no brainer approach to understanding the male species. Harvey has his 90-day probationary rule and advises women not to “put out” before that time. He says you are worth the wait. He calls it the “cookie.”

The book helps women get into the mind-set of a man by listing three important facts on how a man looks at himself.

  • Who he is
  • What he does
  • How much money he makes

Harvey also adds three things that every man needs in a relationship from a woman.

  • Support
  • Loyalty
  • The “Cookie”

I call the “cookie” dessert. From a male’s standpoint, it’s the reward for his hard-working dollars. If a woman isn’t providing sex to her man, Harvey claims he WILL go elsewhere. It’s a simple tough-love formula and a terrific book.

Click here to order your copy.

Julie Spira is the author of The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online. Visit her at

Love Child


It was a privilege and honor to meet the lovely Allegra Huston, sister of Anjelica and daughter of the legendary director, John Huston, at her book signing and appearance at The Council of the Library Foundation of Los Angeles.

Her new book,?Love Child: A Memoir of Family Lost and Found, is an emotional story of her life starting as a child at the age of four, with the tragic car accident death of her mother. Shortly there after, she was introduced to a man and was told, ‘This is your father.” ?The man was legendary film director, John Huston. At the age of twelve, she was then shocked as she was introduced to her biological father,?the British aristocrat ?John Julius Norwich.

She spoke about her family dynamics, including attending the funeral of her legal father, John Huston along with her sister Anjelica and Jack Nicholson. ?As she read excerpts from her book, we listened and all felt her warmth and sorrow as she shared her emotional stories with the group.

Allegra Huston shows great strength as she shares the details from her painful memoir, including finding out that she was a “Love Child” which resulted from an affair her mother had, to the sadness of having no memory of ever being in her mother’s arms, to having two high-profile fathers. She shares her love and acceptance of her large extended family.

I applaud Ms. Huston for her courage to share her stories with the world. She is now happy and living in New Mexico with her son Rafael, and his father.

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