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Reading Room – Sealing the Deal by Dr. Diana Kirschner

Sealing the Deal - Dr. Diana Kirschner

When I had the opportunity to read an advanced copy of Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor’s Guide to Lasting Love, I not only jumped at the chance, but I also formally endorsed this relationship book. I believe in Dr. Diana Kirschner’s work. As the Love Mentor, Dr. Diana gives you concrete tools to really help you find and keep the love you are looking for.

You’ll start off by signing a “Lasting Love Contract.” It’s been proven that if you actually write your desires and wishes down and read them, you’ll have a much more likely chance of having them come to fruition. Dr.Diana also instructs you to write down your fears and will help you determine if he’s really “the one.”

I encourage readers to pick up a copy of this book,? because we all know that everyone wants to love and be loved. With Dr. Diana’s help, you’ll start believing in the possibilities. Her relationship advice is spot on. Sealing the Deal is a welcome addition to the Cyber Dating Expert Reading Room. Enjoy!

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Reading Room – eHarmony Guide to Dating the Second Time Around

It’s with great pleasure to add the?eHarmony Guide to Dating the Second Time Around to the Cyber Dating Expert Reading Room.

The book, edited by Dr. Gian Gonzaga, Ph.D, director of research and development at eHarmony Labs gives proven methods to finding a love that lasts. Many people are finding themselves single after a long term relationship or marriage. Whether through divorce, death, or a painful breakup, this book will give you some exercises and tools as you jump back into the dating scene. Like the online dating site eHarmony, the book is focused on serious minded singles who want a long term committed relationship or marriage.

For those of you starting over again, it’s a terrific guidebook to evaluate what you want in your relationship at this stage of your life. You’ll reflect on past relationships on what worked, what you didn’t like, and will take inventory of your personal life.

In addition, I’m delighted that Dr. Gonzaga will be my featured guest on the Valentine’s edition of Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show, scheduled for Saturday, February 13, 2011 at 11am/PST. He’ll be talking about the book in more detail, so I hope you do listen in.

Reading Room – The Frisky 30-Day Breakup Guide

Frisky 30-Day Breakup Guide

It’s January and time to stop your sobbing. If you need some hand holding, pick up a copy of The Frisky 30-Day Breakup Guide: One Month of Manicures, Massages, and Mojitos to Help You Forget About Him by Jamie Beckman and place it now beside your bed.

Jamie provides you with a 30-Day simple to follow Breakup Calendar that will take you anywhere from buying something pink, to giving blood and getting a massage. The book starts with changing your cell phone wallpaper, which means delete his photos on Facebook, on your cell phone, and any other social networking site. The goal after 30-days is to calmly move on with your life, which is easier to do when you stop staring at your digital history.

In reality, it takes about a month of healing for every year that you were together as a couple. So if you’re interested in getting over him in 30 days or less, this book is for you.

So out with the old, and in with the new. It’s time to get started on becoming the fabulous new you.

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Reading Room – The Man Whisperer

The Man Whisperer

The very first book that we featured in the Cyber-Dating Expert Reading Room was Never Trust a Man in Alligator Loafers by my friend and dating expert, Donna Sozio. Donna has just published her second book along with dating expert Samantha Brett called The Man Whisperer: A Gentle, Results-Oriented Approach to Communication.

From the moment Donna and Sam started writing this book, I was enthusiastic about it. Not only did I endorse the book, but it was an honor to receive one of the very first copies. I am so pleased to add it to the Cyber-Dating Expert Reading Room this month as our featured relationship book.

The Man Whisperer will help you learn a NEW communication technique that gets you ANYTHING YOU WANT, from ANY MAN!

Donna and Sam reveal all their tips, tricks and tactics to get any man want to please women in their new book The Man Whisperer . They teach women how to phrase their requests ?- in a certain way – that makes men do whatever it takes to put a smile on your face… all the while making him think it was his brilliant idea! ?Whether single, married, or somewhere in-between, Man Whispering can turn any guy into a well-tamed man!

And when you purchase your copy, ?(about $10 at -33% off!) you?ll get all these fabulous bonuses from Donna & Sam?s dating expert friends:

? JULIE SPIRA: ?The 5 Secrets to Finding Love Online (If you haven?t downloaded it yet, here?s your chance)

? LISA DAILY: ?7 Reasons Men Love Women Over 40, PLUS: ?2 FREE CHAPTERS OF How To Date Like a Grown-up and Fifteen Minutes of Shame (a novel)

? CHERRY NORRIS: ?How to Meet Your Man, Get Him to Approach You in Less than 6 Seconds and Know if He?s Romantically Interested Within 15 Minutes.

It?s so EASY!

1. ?Just CLICK HERE to purchase The Man Whisperer.

2. ?Then email Donna & Sam at with your Name & Amazon Receipt Number. ?Within a day, you?ll get an email with all these amazing bonuses! ?And of course, you?ll get the book that can make getting what you want from men easier than you ever imagined.

Here are some reviews so far:

“The techniques that Donna and Sam teach in this book will make relationships a lot easier.” ?JULIE SPIRA, DATING EXPERT & BESTSELLING AUTHOR OF THE PERILS OF CYBER DATING: ?CONFESSIONS OF A HOPEFUL ROMANTIC LOOKIN GFOR LOVE ONLINE.

?The Man Whisperer is the answer to all your relationship woes. And sex woes. And ?Why the hell does he do that?? woes.? ?LISA DAILY, BESTSELLING AUTHOR OF STOP GETTING DUMPED!

?A MUST read for every woman who wants and deserves the relationship and life she always dreamed of? And good news, it isn?t rocket science thanks to the Man Whisperer!? ? HOLLIE MCKAY, FOX NEWS.COM ENTERTAINMENT REPORTER/COLUMNIST

“If you want to be happy in your relationships, learn to Man Whisper!” —CHERRY NORRIS, WRITER, DIRECTOR, PRODUCER ?DUTY DATING?

Bad Girls and How to Spot Them Online

Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show

Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert

Listen to Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show where Julie Spira spoke with bestselling author, Dr. Carole Lieberman about her brand new relationship book, Bad Girls: Why Men Love Them & How Gold Girls Can Learn Their Secrets.

You’ll hear about the 12 different types of Bad Girls, and find out exactly which bad girl type each of the Sex and the City girls fits into.

Was Marilyn Monroe a bad girl? Lindsay Lohan? Have you ever dated a bad girl and had your heart broken? This is one of the most informative and entertaining shows of the season.

Find out some of the key ways to spot a bad girl and a bad guy in their online dating profile before you get hooked. Learn some of the secrets from these 12 types to use to your benefit while looking for love online.

Listen in for dating advice and to learn more about dating, love and romance in a Web 2.0 World.

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Bad Girls: Why Men Love Them & How Good Girls Can Learn Their Secrets

Bad Girls - Cyber Dating Expert Reading Room

As a follow up to her bestselling book, Bad Boys: Why We Love Them, How to Live with Them, and When to Leave Them,?we’re pleased to add Dr. Carole Lieberman’s new release, ?Bad Girls: Why Men Love Them & How Good Girls Can Learn Their Secrets to the Cyber-Dating Expert Reading Room.

Find out why men are attracted to these femme-fatalle women and how you can learn what to look for while looking for love online.

You’ll read about 12 different types of Bad Girls, including:

  • Gold-digger
  • Addict
  • Sex Siren
  • Sexual Withholder
  • Married Woman on the Prowl
  • Commitment-Phobe
  • Husband Hunter and Trapper
  • Husband Stealer
  • Damsel in Distress
  • Cougar
  • Ball-Buster
  • Bad Girl Scorned

A great read for both men and women. Dr. Carole Lieberman will be a featured guest on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show on Saturday, November 13, 2010 at 2pm/ET.

Are You Too Picky?

Are You Too Picky? is a new dating and relationship book by bestselling author, Julie Spira.

As a dating coach and advice columnist, Spira has interviewed hundreds of singles about their desire to love and be loved. However, often their pickiness has gotten in the way of love. They don’t want to settle and time just passes them by.

“Whether it’s physical, financial, or geographical, we put too many restrictions that get in the way of love,” said Spira.

“When I meet singles who have met online and crossed continents for love, I find it heartwarming,” Spira adds. ?”It’s my goal to give hope to singles and shake them up a bit by sharing some of these stories.”

One of the couples featured in Spira’s Cyber Love Story of the Week fell in love on MySpace. After they realized there was a connection, the woman found out her new online beau was an amputee and deaf. They are now happily married.

In Are You Too Picky? you’ll hear stories about those too picky and those who opened their hearts to find love in a variety of different ways.

If you’ve even been told you were too picky by your friends and family, we’d like to hear from you.

Julie Spira is a dating expert and author of the bestseller, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online. Visit her at where you can share your online dating stories and receive dating advice.

Finding Your Perfect Match

After Dr. Pepper Schwartz’s appearance on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show, I just needed to share more with you. It’s with great pleasure for me to add her book,?Finding Your Perfect Match to the Cyber-Dating Expert Reading Room.

Dr. Schwartz is the Chief Relationship Expert at Perfect Match, an online dating site that she helped create the Duet Compatibility Profiles for. Her book helps readers identify the eight specific personality characteristics that they need to understand about themselves-and others. In her book, she helps singles determine who they would be compatible with based upon similar personalities. Her book includes a series of self-tests that have helped thousands of people in their search for love, gives them an intimate and honest appraisal of who they are, what they want, and ultimately, who they should be with.

Some of the lifestyle issues she focuses on includes: money, sex, children, core values, and social life. You’ll learn what your deal-breakers are and be able to determine whether someone is a potential match before getting deeply involved. If you are looking for a lasting relationship, this book may be for you.

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He’s Just Not Your Type (And That’s a Good Thing)

Today my friend and fellow dating and relationship author, Andrea Syrtash is celebrating. It’s the release date for her new book, He’s Just Not Your Type (and that’s a good thing): How to Find Love Where You Least Expect It, and we’re joining in on the festivities.

Last week, we were treated to a sneak peek of the book on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show, and it’s with great delight that I am adding this book to the Cyber-Dating Expert Reading Room as a recommended read.

Andrea’s dating and relationship advice comes from an authentic point of view. Her values are completely in line with what we talk about at Cyber-Dating Expert. She uses her own personal story of how her husband Michael, who was not her type. Now, she is happily married and discusses with great enthusiasm about the benefits of dating and mating with a man you originally thought was not your type.

Andrea calls these men the NTs. NTs come in a few flavors including:

  • DNT – Departure Non-Type
  • SNT – Superficial Non-Type
  • CNT – Circumstantial Non-Type

She also has an appendix that includes online dating dos and don’ts.

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The Truth About Men Will Set You Free


It was with great anticipation that I waited for the arrival of Dr. Pat Allen’s latest book, The Truth About Men Will Set You Free: …but first it’ll p*ss you off!?I am a huge fan of her best-selling book,?Getting to ‘I Do’?and have attended her workshops.?

The subject of science in mating and relationships is a huge topic right now. Many online dating sites have personality profiling, there is gene testing, and yet we are still so confused about how to mate successfully.?

In her book, which is co-authored by Don Schmincke, Pat Allen defines the rule of mating. She stated that guys use “things” to prove love and girls use “love” to prove things. She goes further by stating that “love is what females give sex for and sex is what guys give love for.” Does it sound confusing? Not if you read this book. According to Dr. Pat Allen, this is why guys can program the VCR better than women. Dr. Pat Allen has been studying this for over 30 years. She should know.

She encourages women to let their estrogen roll and to capitalize on body language with these tips:

  • Eyes: Paint them.
  • Lips: Make them red.
  • Clothing: Stress the female shape.
  • High Heels: Use’em.
  • Breasts: Expose them.
  • Exercise and Diet: You know this.

Pat tells women, ?”You might let your guy know that he could have a better chance of whispering “sweet nothings” to you in your left ear versus your right. Then again, you might not want to.”

Julie Spira is the author of The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online. Visit her at