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Cyberdating Tip – Find the Time

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In the weeks leading up to the holidays, I will be providing some of my favorite dating tips to help you find love online.


Quite often, someone will sign up for an online dating service when they really don’t have the time to either initiate or respond to email introductions. It’s important to carve out the time and make it a priority, especially if you are interested in finding someone by the holidays. Halloween is already this weekend and Thanksgiving will be here before you know it.

You schedule time to go to the gym, meet up with your friends for drinks, or watch your favorite television show. If you are too busy to find the time to write back to those who are pursuing you, or you don?t have time to select potential mates, you won?t get the result you want. It also isn?t fair to those who write to you who are sincere in their intentions.

My dating advice this week is for you to schedule three nights a week, one hour per night to view online dating profiles. Write to those who pique your curiosity, and respond to those you may be interested in. Make the time and have an overflowing Inbox.

Good luck with your search, and if you meet that someone special online, please do let us know.

Julie Spira is the author of The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online.

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