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It’s the New Year’s resolution for many singles. You make a commitment to making finding love a priority. Perhaps you had a lonely New Year’s or the thought of Valentine’s Day will result in singles taking action with their love lives.

As good as the intentions are, like many resolutions, after a few weeks it moves down on the list of daily activities. I’m here to let you know that now is the time for you to revisit online dating and more specifically, create a new irresistible online dating profile.

Why should this stay on the top of your list? Forget the holiday pressures and red candy hearts. The period from New Year’s through Valentine’s Day is when singles will either join an online dating site for the first time, or renew their membership. Just like refreshing your Facebook profile with new photos and new updates, you need to keep your online dating profile fresh instead of the stagnant profile you once had.

Here are some easy-to-follow and keep New Year’s resolutions for singles looking for love online:

1. Narrow down your search. Do your friends complain that you are too picky? Have they stopped fixing you up? There?s nothing wrong with knowing exactly what you want in a relationship. Remember, no one really gets it all. We are an imperfect society. Make a list of what is most important to you. Number it from 1-10. Now, focus on the first 3 items on your list. Is it Religion? Bicycling? Hiking? Strolling through museums? Put those key words in your search. You might be delighted to see who pops up.

2. ?Reach out and reconnect. Did you get too busy during the year and miss out on meeting someone you started to communicate with online? Take a look in your Inbox and see if they still have an active online dating profile. ? Reach out and send an email with a simple, ?Happy New Year.? If their profile is still online, assume they haven?t met ?the one? yet. It may be a time for a new beginning for both of you.

3. ?Refresh your profile. If you are satisfied with the online dating profile you currently have, change the order of your sentences or add something new and exciting that you’re looking forward to doing. Perhaps it’s an upcoming vacation or seeing one of your favorite bands in concert. As a result, ?your profile will become refreshed and chances are will show up higher in a search.

If you need some extra handholding, I will work with you privately to create an irresistible online dating profile complete with a catchy screen name to stand out in the crowded digital playing field. Visit for more details or contact me at

Let’s make this year the one you really find the love you are looking for.


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