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7 Online Dating Tips to Get Lucky in Love for the Holidays

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Thanksgiving is around the corner and at this joyous time, it can also be very lonely and filled with anxiety for singles.

If you want to get lucky in love, here are my SEVEN dating tips to help you find love online in time for the holidays so you won’t be flying solo on New Year’s Eve.

1. Create an IRRESISTIBLE online dating profile.

  • This includes a catchy screen name, professional photos, and an alluring essay that will pique his curiosity.
  • If you are online now, change your screen name and reinvent yourself.

2. Let’s Get Organized

  • Create a simple excel spreadsheet to help you sift through the possible dates to narrow down your search.

3. Don’t Wait. Initiate

  • Women are told not to initiate contact with men and to let them do the pursuing. Why limit your possibilities? Come up with creative and ?key opening lines to initiate contact with men who will be flattered to hear from you.

4. It’s All About Color

  • Sure nothing beats the little black dress. But for the holidays, spice up your look up with color. Wear red, gold, blue, or a color that will make you shine.

5. Find the Time

  • Don’t spend all your time on the computer. Start filling up your calendar and transfer your online life to an offline relationship.

6. The Magic of 3

  • Spend 3 hours a week minimum on your online dating site.
  • Sign up for 3 online dating sites or mobile dating apps. Choose one a niche site, one larger mainstream site, and one a free online dating site.
  • Write to 3 men EVERY day.
  • Go on 3 dates a day. Does this sound impossible or frightening to you? Start with coffee in the morning, schedule a casual lunch during the day, and in the afternoon meet someone for coffee or drinks. You may be so pleased with your results that one of these dates could turn into a dinner date.

7. Cast a Wide Net

  • Don’t toss away the date without chemistry. Consider each date as a new friend who may invite you to a holiday party. Expand your social and business network and be open to all of the possibilities.

For more personalized cyberdating tips and relationship advice, contact us for private coaching with Cyber Dating Expert Julie Spira, Let us help you create your IRRESISTIBLE online dating profile in time for the holidays or visit CyberDatingExpert.com where we provide dating advice for men and women.

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One Response to “7 Online Dating Tips to Get Lucky in Love for the Holidays”

  1. John Q. on June 16th, 2011 5:52 pm

    I have never heard of a professional online dating coach before, but really looks like you know what you are talking about Julie when it comes to cyber dating – will be referring some people your way in the near future 🙂

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