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Close to 150,000 people over the course of two weekends saw some of the greatest rock and roll in history.

The Desert Trip in Coachella Valley featured the music of Nobel Prize Winner Bob Dylan, the Rolling Stones, Neil Young, Paul McCartney, The Who, and Roger Waters.

Set lists were filled with both political and love songs.

Today we are featuring a quote from Paul McCartney, who sang a song in honor of his current wife Nancy, and one for Linda, “Maybe I’m Amazed.”


Wishing you much love and joy in cyberspace, or wherever you may roam. xo

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Ghosted Quote

Quote of the Day: “When you get ghosted, be happy they’re on a one-way ticket with no return address.”

Many of you have been victims of ghosting. As the ghosted expert, I can tell you I’ve spent hundreds of hours helping singles whose boyfriend or girlfriend disappeared with no explanation. There is no closure and you might find yourself wondering what you’ve done wrong.

Read: Is Your New Boyfriend Ghosting?

I’m here to tell you that ghosting is an epidemic and over 80% of millennials have admitted they have either ghosted or been ghosted by someone they had been seeing. This doesn’t make it right.

Read: Most Millennials Have Been Ghosted

If you are one who has been ghosted recently, be glad they’ve taken a one-way ticket out. Ghosters typically do reappear again. Hopefully you’ll have moved on by then and won’t even remember their name.
If you need closure on your ghosting experience, reach out to us to share your story and we’ll hold your hand and bring back the confidence to get back on that dating saddle.

Read: Ghosted for the First Time

Wishing you much love and joy in cyberspace, or wherever you may roam. xo

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Read: Confused, Is he Ghosting?


#MusicMonday Quote of the Day

Happy Music Monday. As we start a new week, it’s time to put the digital DJ hat on and share a musical quote from the bankd UB40 about love to warm your heart.

Music Monday

“Love is a thing, well, it’s kid of like quicksand: The more you are in it, the deeper you sink. And when it hits you, you’ve just got to fall.”

Don’t be afraid of falling into quicksand. Open your heart. It isn’t a lifetime sentence, but could be a lifetime of happiness coming your way.

Wishing you much love and joy in cyberspace, or wherever you may roam. xo

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Julie Spira is America’s Top Online Dating Expert and Digital Matchmaker. She was an early adopter of the Internet and has been coaching singles on finding love online for over 20 years. Find out how our Irresistible Profiles programs will help you find your dream date and read our many client testimonials.

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“The most precious possession in the world is the heart of his or her partner.” ~Julie Spira

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Thought of the Day

Game of Love

Do you ever feel like you’re not a priority in your relationship?

When looking for love or a partnership, are you doing all of the heavy lifting?

If so, you’re not alone. These tips to the Game of Love will guide you into being in the right relationship, and steer you away from the wrong one.

In the Game of love, making the other person a priority, means carving out the time to be together.

The togetherness results in creating memories.

Building memories creates bonding.

Communicating, whether by phone, in person, text, or drone, you’re developing and building to stay connected.

In love, if you combine all of these four giving actions, you can wrap it up in one big beautiful red ribbon.

Wishing you much love and joy in cyberspace, or wherever you may swipe or roam.


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Meet Dating CEOs at Silicon Beach Fest

It’s an honor and joy to put together a panel of female dating CEOs at Silicon Beach Fest, being held at the Marina del Rey Hotel on August 24 – 27th.

Silicon Beach Fest Dating Panel


Our panel will include Kelly Steckelberg, CEO of Zoosk; Jennifer Kelton, CEO of BOD Dating App;  Talia Goldstein, CEO of Three Day Rule, and myself Julie Spira, CEO of Cyber-Dating Expert.

The Dating CEO panel will be held at 4pm in the Waterfront Room and you’ll learn all the best tips for dating profiles and hear directly from industry pros.


Julie Spira – CEO and Founder, Cyber-Dating Expert

Julie Spira is the CEO and founder of Cyber-Dating Expert, an online dating coaching, advice and consulting business in the dating industry. As an early adopter of Internet dating and online dating expert, Julie has been coaching singles for over two decades on finding love. Her dating advice has been featured in over 1000 media stories and she’s the author of the bestseller, “The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online,” which was re-released this year on Audible, where she narrated audio book version. Julie is the creator of “Mobile Dating BootCamp” and “Online Dating BootCamp.” Julie graduated from the Park School of Communications at Ithaca College, where she received a B.S. in Television-Radio. She started her career in broadcasting as a media personality. Always on the leading edge of technology, become the first female executive at RKO Radio Networks, the country’s first digitally delivered satellite radio network. She ranks as the most influential person in “dating” and “online dating” on social media influence site, Klout.

Site: CyberDatingExpert.com Twitter @JulieSpira

Talia Goldstein – CEO and Founder, Three Day Rule

Talia Goldstein is the CEO and founder of Three Day Rule. After studying communication at Tulane University, Talia worked as a TV producer at E! True Hollywood Story, where she quickly became the office dating expert, setting up many co-workers with matches and handing out insightful dating advice from her cubicle. Recognizing her hidden talent for matchmaking, Talia quit her full-time job and began hosting popular singles events and offering personalized matchmaking services. Three Day Rule was officially created in 2013, allowing Talia to turn her lifelong hobby of matchmaking into a thriving business. Leveraging her extensive network of successful, attractive singles, Talia has found matches for hundreds of clients, including top executives, entrepreneurs, and everyday young professionals. Among her clients, Talia has been recognized for her strong instinct for what drives lifelong connections between two people. She has made it her mission to help clients on their quest to find true love, and is thrilled that her work allows her to make a difference in people’s lives.

Web: ThreeDayRule.com Twitter: @TaliaGoldstein @ThreeDayRule

Kelly Steckelberg – CEO, Zoosk

Kelly Steckelberg is the Chief Executive Officer (CEO) at Zoosk. Kelly joined Zoosk in March 2011 from Cisco, where she held various roles including divisional CFO positions for the Consumer Segment and WebEx. Kelly joined Cisco through the WebEx acquisition, where she served as Controller, Chief Accounting Officer (CAO). Prior to WebEx, Kelly held executive positions with Epiphany, Inc. and a variety of finance positions at PeopleSoft, Inc. in the U.S. and Europe. She started her career at KPMG in both tax and audit. Kelly holds both a bachelor’s and master’s degree in accounting from the University of Texas at Austin.  In addition to her work at Zoosk, Kelly also serves on the board of Episcopal Community Services of San Francisco (ECS), which helps provides housing, jobs, shelter, and essential services to homeless and low-income people in San Francisco. When not working, she loves to travel and has been to over 60 countries.

Web: Zoosk.com Twitter @ksteckel @zoosk

Jennifer Kelton – CEO and Founder, BOD Dating App

Jennifer Kelton is a dating industry expert and Founder & CEO of the recently launched bod (Bad Online Dates) app. She is also author of the acclaimed dating book, Don’t Use My Sweater like a Towel and creator of dressforthedate.com.  The bod (Bad Online Dates) app is a geo-location-based dating app where users can move on from a bad date and potentially meet someone new, in real-time.

Web: boddatingapp.com  Twitter: @BadOnlineDates

Quote of the Day

Quote of the Day:Look into the sky and make a wish.”

The August Full Sturgeon Moon will be visible tonight, August 18th. You’ll also be able to view it on Friday, August 19th.

There’s nothing more romantic than watching the full moon with a date or your significant other. If you can’t be together, you can watch a live stream together and have a digital date. If you’re alone, no need to fret, look up at moon and make a wish. May all your dreams come true.

Full Moon

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Happy National Girlfriends Day

Hello Tweethearts and welcome to August.

My the summer is flying by fast.

Today is National Girlfriends Day. While everyday should be a day to honor friendships, our quote of the day from Gwyneth Paltrow is a great way to start the week. If you know someone who is hurting, reach out and reconnect. Friendship is like a boomerang, it keeps coming back to you.

Wishing you much love and joy in cyberspace, or wherever you may roam. xo

National Girlfriends Day

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How to Get Engaged at Any Age

Engaged at Any Age

It’s with great enthusiasm to tell you about this F.R.E.E. Global Video event, hosted by my friend Jaki Sabourin including special interviews with John Gray, from the Venus and Mars series and 30 other dating and relationship experts, including myself!

I have a feeling you’re going to like it as well and it’s filled with free gifts!

Here are some questions you might be asking yourself.
  • Do you ever feel like you are waiting around for the right man to walk through the door or show up in your inbox?
  • And maybe sometimes you start to wonder if love is even in the cards for you?
I can assure you of one thing, if you want true love, you’ll have it.
Love isn’t something you find, it’s something you deliberately choose and attract.
We’re going to teach you how to do this. No more hoping. No more waiting.
Because the truth is, if you want to find your soulmate, you have to take intentional action!
My colleague, Love and Dating expert, Jaki Sabourin is back with her most popular online event, Engaged at any Age®. Would you like to find out here the REAL way to attract love into your life?’
I’ll be doing a full session on how to create an Irresistible Dating Profile that you won’t want to miss1
This time around, world-renowned author John Gray (Men Are From Mars, Women are From Venus) is going to open this event with Jaki in a live call “How to Train Your Man” followed by 30 other leading experts that have come on board to share their wisdom and insights for finding lasting love.
Let me tell you how this is different.
You likely get a lot of emails from dating experts who are teaching women how to change themselves in order to attract a man. That’s the OLD way! This is the new way.
Engaged at any Age® is about training MEN to do what you want them to do.
Preparing MEN to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Empowering yourself to be open, confident and sexy and DELIBERATE in your actions.
This training series is a like getting a Master’s Degree in ATTRACTION!
We are going to show you how to:
  • Train a man to respect you, your needs and your deepest desires
  • Set healthy boundaries so that you are never sacrificing your true self
  • Master sexual confidence so that you are irresistible
  • Send powerful messages to men so that only the ones you want approach you!
  • Train men to communicate easily and openly. No more guessing games!
  • Foster a sense of intimacy (with you in the lead!)
And you will continue to receive free gifts every single day of the event!
You are in charge of your love life and that is exactly how it should be!
Finding the relationship of your dreams is not about how you look, what you say or where you go.
It’s about instinct.
It’s about understanding the powerful principles of attraction that have tied men to women for centuries and using them TODAY to deliberately create the love of your life.

Sure. We can tell you how to get a date.

And we will Here.

But are you just looking for a dinner out? Or are you ready for a lifelong SOULMATE? Do you just want to be approached? Or do you want to be adored?
We are going to take you step by step through the practices you need to master to draw in your ideal love.
I’m so excited to be a part of this. Jaki’s approach is modern and multi-dimensional and she has brought together a power-house panel with a goal of teaching you the most effective, most empowering strategies for manifesting love in your life.
Is a deep and happy relationship on your wish list? You can choose one. You can create one.
You can start right here!
Here’s to getting off the roller-coaster and settling in with love,

Wishing you much love and joy.


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Quote of the Day: “A smile is the best makeup any girl can wear.” ~ Marilyn Monroe

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